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Out of curiosity, it appears you wanted the 4 count of lobster cakes of brand pictured, so he offered that same brands crab cake. You were good with pre-made lobster ones but wanted fresh crab cakes instead? Any particular reason the same brand crab cake wasn't suitable??As for the interaction, he was a bit rude but it was confusing overall. (82)
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Including a pic of your message to him at the start of the shop would have gone a looong way to how people are perceiving this interaction tbh. (40)
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You're telling him you said it 5 times, but you didn't say โbehind the counterโ until the 5th time, then he understood and told you that they don't have any behind the counter. The first 4 times you just kept saying โfrom the seafood departmentโ and he was telling you that the ones in the pic he sent you are from the seafood department. This sir, makes you the peepeehead. Good Day. (99)
I def get I should of said that from the jump. But he was an butthole from the start. (-16)
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I was asking for opinions but I just legit can not see how I was rude at first. I can see how I wasn't clear tho. I definitely should have said the seafood counter at the very beginning. (1)
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delivery drama is honestly the best drama on reddit
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And these are the people worried about jobs being lost to AI, yet this is what they spend their free time on.
And yes I am aware I am posting on rdrama, shut up, this site is more fun and I post during work hours.
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I wonder how many cumulative trips to the grocery store that's equivalent to
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Being an instacart shopper seems like the lowest job you could ever hope to have, like cleaning urinals at a highschool would be more respectable than being an instacart shopper. Plus from all the posts I've read they all hate their customers, and all the customers hate the shoppers.... literally no one is winning here except the people who make the app.
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Nah they're not winning either.
The only winner is the jeet founder who fricked off after the IPO.
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I have an irrational hatred for companies who rely on apps to do basic shit.
Why the frick can't I make an account on that site without giving my phone number they'll spam me with texts endlessly?
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The aisle contains more than just seafood.
Synonyms for department include region, area, section, zone.... all things that could be interpreted as subsection of the "frozen items" part of the store
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Which section do you think is the "seafood department," the freezers that have tons of shit in them and some frozen fish, or the gigantic section of the store dedicated to butchering and displaying seafood that smells like a boat dock?
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You mean the section that also serves ham, turkey, burgers, steaks, baked potatoes, jello, potato salad, and many other non-seafood items?
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It's called efficiency.
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OP seems completely unhinged lmao
ahhaah thats a dude right
lmao xhe even has an onlyfans
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So its a dude selling second hand used underwear? I dont understand whats going on here.
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The wagie is always in the wrong
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This is why I don't send ESLs to buy my crab cakes.
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Given that this reads identical to every single customer service interaction, it has to be something built into
language that makes it difficult for ESLs to understand sequential clauses.
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The OP is a fricking r-slur. He ordered something thats not available in the app. He wanted fresh crabcakes from behind the counter. When asked to clarify he said, 4 times, "from the seafood department" without specifying "fresh" or "behind the counter".
The ESL r-slur did nothing wrong. He got crab cakes, from the seafood department. That was the request. He was then advised to return them. That contradicted the request. After 4 neurodivergent messages the r-slur OP finally explained and the ESL r-slur then did his job.
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yeah if the OP just said "from behind the counter" the first time, or even the second time, it would be a non-issue. But instead he just repeated himself over and over with some "from the seafood dept" shit (those crabcakes are also from the seafood dept r-slur).
You could argue the shopper's r-slurred for not getting it the first time but OP is r-slurred for not picking up on the issue.
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If you bothered to read his comments, he says you can't order the fresh crab cakes on the app so he orders the frozen one and messages the delivery person to get the fresh ones. He does this regularly without issue.
This time they had no fresh crab cakes so the delivery guy was offering the originally ordered frozen crab cakes as a substitute, which he already knew were unwanted.
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Cope, you have the reading comprehension of a redditor
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Neighbor what do you think the section of your store dedicated to serving and butchering seafood is called. Or do you really get all of your fish out of a freezer.
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Neighbor where do you think they keep the crabcakes
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In the seafood department not the frozen foods department.
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Crab cake is a disgusting word
doesn't even look tasty
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crab cakes are delicious
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Seems like a waste of crab but it's whatever
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No and i can't imagine frozen ones are any good, or even contain real fish.
It looks like wet cat food, 12 hours after it's been sitting out
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It says on the box that it's mostly imitation crab and
fish flakes
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buying premade crab cakes with a bunch of filler in them
making your own crab cakes
they are one of the easiest things to make
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I honestly just smoked some "crab cakes", and now I'm reading this...
https://skosha.com/products/crab-cakes/
Far out
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Why are they chatting with the delivery driver
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It can happen with grocery orders when the requested item isn't available so they have to figure out if the customer wants a substitute or just to remove it from their order.
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I would never never never use one of those grocery delivery services.
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<Donut[AFK]> HEY INSTACARTE
<Donut[AFK]> ORDER
<Instakarte> RETORT
<Donut[AFK]> COUNTER-ORDER
<Instakarte> QUESTIONING OF SHELLFISH PREFERENCE
<Donut[AFK]> SUGGESTION TO SHUT THE FRICK UP
<Instakarte> NOTATION THAT YOU CREATE A REFUND
<Donut[AFK]> RIPOSTE
<Donut[AFK]> ADDON RIPOSTE
<Instakarte> COUNTER-RIPOSTE
<Donut[AFK]> COUNTER-COUNTER RIPOSTE
<Instakarte> NONSENSICAL STATEMENT INVOLVING FROZEN FISH
<Reddit> RESPONSE TO RANDOM STATEMENT AND THREAT TO BAN OPPOSING SIDES
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Both are wrong.
The other person for using instacart
The redditor for using reddit and being a "gig
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This all probably could have been avoided if OP stopped responding with "yes" to these multiple question messages.
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Yeaah they don't offer behind the counter crab cakes on the app so I always do those one and right when I get the shopper I tell them I'd like to substitute for behind the counter crab cakes. I've never once had an issue.:
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Yeaah guess I've just never had an issue before so never thought I'd need to send a picture of the specific crab cake when I said from the very beginning I'd like the crab cakes from the seafood counter.:
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I def get I should of said that from the jump. But he was an butthole from the start.:
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You were rude in the sense that you made 0 effort to clarify the misunderstanding, which was 100% your fault (as you admit in this comment). Your lazy responses were wasting his time, so I understand why he got frustrated and canceled at the end. You could have avoided a lot of hate in this post if you had just admitted this early on and then stopped your hate train on him. Instead you've painted yourself as dull, delusional, and heartless.:
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And here's the problem with texting and not calling. Longer text messages are almost always confusing unless proper punctuation and communication techniques are used. The above conversation is rife with problems. Vague and unhelpful statements. The driver should never have used the term โridiculousโ but the customer should have just said โI misunderstoodโ and moved on. The rudeness was uncalled for.Pick up a darn phone and make a call. Learn to communicate. Stop with all the darn texting. It leads to way too much confusion and anger. I weep for the future.:
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Oh and they told you the crab cakes were not available. And asked if you wanted to refund with the ones they found. Then you proceeded to be a jackass and tell them to replace with the ones you originally wanted? Like actually you sound annoying. And you kinda just keep repeating yourself. When clearly you know they don't understand, but you want to be a bully. And guess what happens when you're a bully? This. They blew up on you because Instead you drew this conversation out too long when all you and to say was "refund" "replace" you made a simple process far more difficult. And that's why you're in the wrong. Probably torture everyone you know the same way. Not telling them and making them find the answer. You triggered me and you suck.:
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