I (28m) don't like to tease or make jabs at people. It's always felt mean or rude to me. But apparently, that seems to be the norm in my social circles. Anytime I've tried to, people find it off putting or that I'm being kind of a peepee. I don't have much success with forming new acquaintances or friendships because I don't like to do any of those things. Does anyone else feel the same or am I alone in this?
I've noticed people around me that tease and make jabs at each other form friendships much faster, and I find it frustrating.
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We love all the cute twinks here on drama don't we !fellas?
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Are you really someone's friend if you haven't implied he's a strag on numerous occasions?
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Call me a cute twink again, cute twink.
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Please don't call them cute twinks. It's mean.
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Of course BIPOC
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Teasing your mates is how you test them to see if they're fun to be around and can take care of themselves, or if they're some kind of useless parasite who's going to be an unnecessary burden and drag everybody down.
Unfortunately, many autards, and almost all women, can't tell the difference between this and bullying.
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This more sounds like he doesn't realize he's just not in the club. He's an autist, they're inhumane and don't have souls. He's never been able to mesh with the cadence of the conversation and people just feel like something is off about him. He doesn't read when to make the jabs or how, and he may not even do anything really r-slurred or loud, but if you're not part of the group, it comes off as extra off, wrong. He got enough negative reactions that he quit doing it.
Perhaps he just was under socialized as a child and needed some more time to make more mistakes and get the hang of it that he hasn't giving himself. Or maybe he's just a soulless autist who should stick to numbers and autist stuff, or kill himself.
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while everyone else in the social circle is doing dumb banter like 'haha are you wearing that shirt because you lost a bet?', this sperg is probably saying actual mean spirited shit and then when people don't want to be friends with him
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But, but, all humor derives from the unexpected, so it should be funny if I call someone a piece fricking shit whore all of a sudden, right?
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It's like the time my coworker called his half asian son a chink
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I think that'd be funny but only if youre a dude saying it to another dude
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You should probably just fold When the only winning move is not to play And yet you keep on trying, Mindlessly Replying.
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I have the solution
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