of multiple subreddits took out a PAYDAY LOAN to go to an Anime Convention 
The interest is eating him alive 
I am using a throwaway since I am moderator on several of the subs that have to do with my hobby of cosplay, anime and hentai.
This is one of those ones where I see my self as being 80% right but I want to be fair because honestly I depend on my parents for a lot of stuff (rent, tuition, food, car insurance).
I am huge into cosplay and gaming. It has been my dream to go to a big convention in my cosplay. A friend suggested we got to LVL UP since it has everything we like. The badges aren't super expensive but we decided we wanted to super splurge on accomodations so maybe we could host parties in our room. So the total cost of my trip including everything (airfare, room, estimate for food, badge) is about $3500. I had $2000 that I was supposed to pay towards my credit card but I decided to get the rest I would get a pay day loan this was back in march so the trip is all paid for.
I wanted to keep it a secret from my parents but I accidentally missed my first payment to the pay day loan and for some god knows how reason the people at the pay day loan place did a search for my name since I as ducking their calls until I could borrow some money from a friend and they called my parents home number looking for me (I can't even imagine this is legal!?!)
So here's the deal, I'm no like so dense that I don't understand I messed up. I mean I know that I NEED to pay my debts. But here's the deal, I mean I'm only in college once and I only get to do things like LVLUP while I'm young. I also think this was a very normal mistake and my parents should give me enough room to make mistakes and learn from them.
But my parents are freaking the heck out. My dad has basically said this is it, that after the credit card debt and my grades and now the pay day loan and missing a payment I have shown a level of irresponsibility that he can't trust me any more and I either move home to go to community college and work for his company or he cuts me off for good. As harsh as that was my mom was even worse and she literally screamed at me like cussing names and told me that they didn't raise me like this and I acting like a "spoiled Instagram butthole."
edit: just for clarification I'm 20f.
Like I said I KNOW I messed up, but am I really an butthole?
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“Move back in” isn't about re-establishing trust, it's about mitigating damage. You're supposed to tell him how you re-establish trust.
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Sounds fake, but I like the idea of a redditor making some janny look bad.
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The "hentai" makes it sound kinda fake, but i have met women like this
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!coomers demographic lore
Before my pixiv account was banned (with no reason given
) my art was consistently hitting charts for "popular with female users" , now I know some % of that will be questionably marked as women but it was still kind of surprising. It was mostly of any Yuri or just nude pin ups with no s*x.
Blue archive is notable like 30% women and it's an entirely women character only completely coomer based game
Genshin impact is majority women player base
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Most of the people I know who play Genshin are biofoids.
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you don't know any biofoids
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Zoomer foids love genshit
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I stole a random notebook from my unis lost and found when I worked there, from some chink chick. Full of Genshin min maxxing calculations and ingredients needed for item recipes. Still have it
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Looked up the foid favored category on pixiv and saw this
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I meant that it's dissonant to mention hentai in a post where you're looking for sympathy, so that line trips bait flags. I know female weebs (even straight ones) love cute and sexy female characters, so i wouldn't be surprised if many of them like your work. I think when they describe their interests they would use a term that connotes more than porn (yuri, yaoi, just "art," etc).
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Genshin makes sense since it has twinks for the shegooners.
@DeepKeepShill say this as a feminist ally.
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Anime pickmeisha activity.
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How fat is she if SHE needs a swanky hotel room to lure fricking nerds for "parties"?
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I thought it was a dude till I read the '20f' at the end because of this lol
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I knew thems was presenting as female because of the naive entitlement
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Darn downie is a zaret chad
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20 zoomie foids are slutty hentaiers either to goon or for attention.
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Hentai is inspo for cosplayers. They need to know what their audience likes.
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Yeah, definitely seems fake since OP comes off as incredibly irresponsible but I'm not sure what the angle on why this post was made would be. I'd guess it's AI-generated but it was made 5 years ago, so it can't be that..
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Jannies.... bad!
There, that's the reason. !teaparty
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If Jannying is bad why does it feel so good?
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Because volunteering is good for the soul!
(Unfortunately, all jannies go to heck).
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It's probably real. Weebs are low functioning r-slurs.
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I would have said fake until Caleb Hammer
revealed the truth about poors
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Were pooners a thing five years ago?
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Snapshots:
https://old.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/bdjdm4/aita_for_taking_out_a_pay_day_loan_so_i_can_go_to/?sort=controversial:
undelete.pullpush.io
ghostarchive.org
archive.org
archive.ph (click to archive)
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He doesnt miss
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!slotsmb2500
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This is the biggest waster on planet earth
Oh nevermind NTA
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Hopefully b8. This is about as heartbreaking behavior to see from your daughter at 20 as her getting pregnant with the guy leaving immediately. Actually more cause if in the latter scenario she gets an abortion, while a payday loan just grows like a tumor.
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just make her sell the baby, duh?
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Yet another r-slur using credit cards wrong
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Bruh 💀
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Extremely obvious bait lmao
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Weird. Who would think loan sharks would be persistent.
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But I thought being a janny would pay it a substantial salary
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Anyone who didn't immediately realize this is bait after reading is r-slurred.
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how big is a payday loan for someone who earns zero dollars a month
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Hentai as a hobby?
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Whole reason im doubting this is bait is because is something someone would say who is dishonest with their story. I guess their parents gave them him the 2K for the creditcard debt and he spend it on the trip. Only reason I can see parents going batshit on him and him coming to Reddit to cry and ask for reassurance on his decision.
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Goyim
moment 
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