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OP really sounds like the type who moves to the suburbs because he gets upset when he sees a verb occur (816)

Verb?? (74)

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I understand that your are not writing because you're a bad person, otherwise you would not even ask the question or explain this situation to us. But your wife will love you even more if she notices that she can grow and be herself with your support. That's how a relationship grows. I'm actually going through something similar to you, since my boyfriend is planning on starting a new carrier which I know will make him meet a lot of new people and it scares me. But I wonder: do I want to be the type of partner that prevents the other person from accomplishing goals they care about? I don't. And I have to struggle with myself not to be that person. If you love her, support her! And I wish you both the best (-12)

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Don't forget the threat of liberal thinking (2094)

"Liberal Thinking" = Not hanging out with all whites (126)

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Woah woah there pal, you're forgetting that Anna and her husband have a mixed gender friend group. (299)

THE HORROR!!! 😱😱😱😱😱 (26)

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YTA. The quickest way to lose your wife is to prevent her from living her life fully. From what you say, her whole existence since marrying you has been about you and the family's needs. That is a very beautiful thing, but she still needs to be someone unto herself. Every reason you list for wanting her to stay home is a fear of yours, and you are going to let fear control your decision making? Additionally, you have now heaped guilt and shame on your wife's head because of your fear if she pursues anything for herself. I just don't understand how you can't see how selfish you seem from this post? And disrespectful even. You don't trust her to be herself because you think her being herself will result in inconvenience for you or a loss for you. So you would rather her not be herself. And she should feel guilty for exploring things about herself. Just selfish dude. And small man energy. (2)

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YTA. You're controlling your wife and stripping her not just of her freedom, but of her individuality. She's a person too and sacrificed her goals in life to marry and raise both your children. I'm sure she loved every minute of it, but that came with a sacrifice nonetheless. You're making her feel guilty for what? Because you're insecure? Because you're scared something MAY happen?? Why do you think so low of your wife?? Making her feel guilty, and forcing her to ignore her own personal happiness and only focus on yours goes beyond selfish. This is abusive. You'd rather your wife be depressed and lonely and not thrive in life, because you're too insecure to watch your wife grow as an individual? You're being a horrible husband to her. She deserves better. (1)