WIBTA for divorcing my wife because she couldn't handle me crying in front of her?

My husband has cried in front of me a few times and what I do is hold him and support him. I'm more loving and gentle afterwards. I tell him forget about cleaning or house chores and go play video games.

manchild

I would never laugh at my husband for crying. He very rarely has, one of the most precious moments I have of him is him tearing up when my son asked if he could be his dad.

cuck

Husband, it is anniversary. Time to go look at the killing tree.

cry in front of a woman and you might as well just get divorced right then and there, she's lost all respect for you

YWBTA - I may be controversial here, but I'm gonna say that likely she thought that your crying was performative and off-putting. It's her country, it's her people, and she's not making a show of being all messed up about the inhumanity of the recent past. You're a soft, sheltered American making a big emotional deal about a legacy that your wife has carried around all her life. Bet she's never cried about it in front of you. It's just worlds colliding- she understands that people have to simply live with tragedy while you want to make it about your own feelings.

And it isn't like I don't get you, I cried my eyes out at Auschwitz. But that was embarrassing because it's not really my pain.

YTA sweety its not your pain

Something is broken in your wife. You need couples therapy for your own peace of mind, but I think she could benefit from some individual counseling as well.

"JuSt Go tO ThErApY" says reddit

I'm a bit surprised that this is enough for Reddit to advocate a DTMFA approach to your wife. Usually the convenience of women is paramount.

In the old days male babies would be throw off the nearest cliff if they cried in front of their mother even if it's just after they're born.

!fellas !historychads

I feel bad for the young moids inducted into that echo chamber. It's no wonder they can drift to Tate or whatever r-slur grift of the month so hard because soys and foids will just lie about this shit and repeat the lie over and over.

Men should cry too

Cute twink

You can't cry around women without making them think you're weak and incapable, and the way to remind them you're not weak is to physically manhandle them. He needs to put his wife in a headlock and give her a noogie.

I can understand tearing up - but full on sobbing? Nah grow up. I'm with the here

Has he considered that his wife is a génocider? He didn't say how old they are. Maybe she's mad he didn't like her handiwork.

NTA your genocide your rules

Darn getting that mail order bride really backfired huh

I feel so bad for this woman who married a total cute twink

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That's toxic masculinity

Every time. It's bad enough they can't take accountability for their own actions and choices but then they have to blame men for it, good morning.

I'm calling this as bait because Asian people cry all the fricking time (even the men) so this seems weird.

Why is he sobbing in public lmao

Am I the angel?

>Honey don't go, I want to hear more stories about black children getting bludgeoned to death on the tree. What kind of tree is most effective?

There's some circumstances where a man getting emotional can be hot, but African Genocide #8739? Nope.