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[๐Ÿค“๐Ÿค“๐Ÿค“๐Ÿค“๐Ÿ”˜] Got chased down by an employee asking if we meant to tip.

https://old.reddit.com/r/tipping/comments/1dnsy78/got_chased_down_by_an_employee_asking_if_we_meant/

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Glad it's a damper to your comfort going out to eat. I suggest you stop. You clearly can't afford and you're compete and utter buttholes. Make your own food at home. People never cease to amaze me. (-32)

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Good! You deserved to be uncomfortable for doing that. Simple question, no response to bad answer. I'd say the server handled themselves well. You didn't deserve that much courtesy but they can't force you to be decent people! (-38)

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I was chased after when I had left already. That level of tip begging was what surprised me. (22)

Server didn't beg. They gave you a chance to have made a mistake. You failed the server/customer mores, not them. I def wouldn't go back there again! (-27)

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Serious question. How do you justify not tipping even with a rude and obnoxious server? I have tipped twice, once for our original server who disappeared after delivering our food and the server who actually waited on us. What should I have done with our original server? She wasn't rude or obnoxious. It just seemed like she didn't care or was lazy. (2)

i've never not tipped. the one very rude and obnoxious server i've had in the last 6 years as an adult, we just walked out after she brought us our drinks an hour later. wrote a bad review and called her name out. i've never been so displeased with service that i have tipped under 20%. these broke butt bitches are walking out every single meal they eat out feeling guilty and cheap? jesus. i only eat out with my girl like once a month and i know servers. they're there for your tip money. i'm going to ruin some young woman's day, and ruin my mood because of guilt over $10??? this sub is a joke. anti tipping should be a thing when you're getting ice cream, vape pods, or any other service that's given to you right at the counter. it shouldn't be targeted towards wait staff. (1)

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Because we all know those waiters, driving around in their Mercedes and BMWs, they definitely are the ones we should be taking our anger at the system out on! (1)

Maybe I live in a more affluent area or whatever but I've definitely seen restaurant workers that drive BMWs or Benz's. Sometimes it's obviously a teenager of somebody that lives in the area. Sometimes it's not, though. I personally know one person who works a good paying office job but has Fridays off, and they serve at a restaurant on Fridays and weekends. Why does it really matter what they drive? I tip 20% no matter what, unless something egregious happens, like getting my order wrong twice somehow. The only other time I'm super tempted to not tip is when I get a clearly bad attitude from someone that isn't just having a bad day. The ones that treat you like you're annoying and inconveniencing them for just being there at the restaurant as a customer. That entitled and flippant attitude drives me nuts, and most of the time I still tip because I think to myself that they probably just haven't been through enough of life's bullshit to realize they probably don't have it so bad in ... (1)

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The audacity seems out of control these days. Many times the service sucks and then they still want a 30% tip when I have to wait 30 minutes for a drink and 30 minutes for my check. I don't make that much money either and I don't get a raise every year. I don't go to full service restaurants at all anymore and they still want a tip at the service counter. people have tip fatigue. The wait staff should be mad at the self-service kiosks that started begging for tips because that's really when people started getting tip fatigue (5)

This is it. Those things are the death knell for tipping culture. People are realizing more and more that it is a scam and taking advantage of people's good-hearted nature. No one likes to feel emotionally manipulated just for buying some food. People are largely sick of it, as this sub indicates. (2)

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Redditors failing basic reading comprehension: if servers in Commiefornia get paid normal wages, tipping shouldn't be expected. It's that simple.

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even if that werent the case, just get another job if you dont like the pay. Its not my fault your boss doesnt pay you well. If they baked the tip into the price of my steak id pay it, butt im not doing the emotional labour of math when im on a full stomach and have to take a shit, whose tipping me to do that?

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Lol "just get a better job" is primo seethebait for these people, it's the easiest way to get a dozen angry responses

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Stoke the flames with a good-faith "I'll even help you find a better job -- what skills or accreditations do you have that an employer might look for?"


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also "its not supposed supposed to support an adult, its supposed to be an entry level job"

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Looool :marseyxd: the subtle, not so subtle, implication that they're losers for not having moved up yet is peak

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i sometimes rephrase it as "if you wabt real money, then get a real job." Gets em everytime!

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They will just move the goalposts and state that a $20 minimum wage isn't a livable wage and still expect to get tipped the same.

Servers have this weird complex where they are the only low skill job entry level job where they expect to be able to live comfortably in desirable areas off a job like that.

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They don't want to eliminate tips because they get overpaid with tips regardless of the random non tipper, and they know it. If commiefornia killed tipping they'd get paid as much Walmart wagies who carry twice as much shit and deal with as many r-slurred customers.

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Servers get paid close to $100k in good places mostly due to untaxed tips. Leftoids advocating living wage and doing away with tips is actually harmful to themselves lol

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