My uncle in law made me cry because he said i don't wear makeup : TwoXChromosomes

I keep thinking about what happened on the weekend, i went to visit my mum and my uncle in law was there (53M) who said to me (F28) that because I don't wear makeup and "make an effort," no guy will ever find me attractive.

I'll be honest that neighbor is not fully correct

As you see she is wearing make up.

I just don't understand why he felt the need to say it in front of everyone at my mum's house and knowing that I'm still single and have been for a while it just hurt.

It's just weird because my mum loved him and thinks he's the best thing ever because he helped my auntie through a tough time. I think that makes him think he has the right to say what he wants

So... he did the bare minimum for a partner he loves. Gooood for him.

All the genius xxcels users don't understand he wouldn't had talked about it if her mom and all other wouldn't had fricked his brain with being worried she'll ends up being single cat lady.

For example my aunt was already ultra worried that her daughter ends up being unmarried when the girl was 22 and now she is 26 and never had bf because she is Chad only. Uncle tried to show her couple of guys (doctors and lawyers in late to early 30) she got mad at her dad for thinking she can't her self find a guy

So back to op, she looks older than 30 even older than 40, is fat. She ain't going to find a good guy with those stats, she needs to find a good job and move out from parents and invite an 45 year old BBC. That's the best way to make her life happy