i'm 25F and my roommate is 20M. it's important to mention that i am a lesbian in a relationship and he is gay. he has different guys coming in (usually at night), he plays music super loud at night when they come over, then after they leave he washes his sheets right before the next guy comes over. one night, me and my gf wanted to watch a movie in the living room and literally couldn't because we could hear him having very loud s*x. he brings in a min. 2 people a night. max: he has had 4 guys come through in one day. how do i bring this up without being disrespectful but still direct. i can understand being young and wild but god, having this many random guys in my apartment is so weird. i also know this because i installed a ring camera. its also gross because he uses my washer and dryer each time. honorable mention because maybe this is the root of my annoyance: he doesn't pay me for the light bill on time and he doesn't wash my dishes that he uses even though he has his own dishes
Its kinda 
that a 20 year old, already living on their own and is basically getting 
every night by multiple men.
And then they wonder why scrotes look at them as plague spreaders.
In-calls put you and him at risk of being robbed, assaulted, and worse. Get some extra cameras for the shared areas and your personal spaces, find an older gay mentor he'll listen to
I think a "gay older mentor" is what set him down this path, redditor. 
Every other comment is apologia that starts with "s*x work is valid but..."
Some of them do get a little chuddy
ok I'm done copy/pasting quote comments, go 
your own.
Funny how anytime I read about lesbians/gays cohabiting spaces there is always issues not just being absolute degenerates, but always late on bills or never can be arsed to wash their own dishes.
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I lost hope for finding "the one" after seing how most of them act online..
When even most of the married gays seem to be in open relationships banging other guys constantly..
At least that's my impression from the internet, so pray i'm wrong
I should stop thinking in terms of statistics it makes me depressed
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There are some good gays. A lot of them are just sluts tho. Even some of them who want a relo are complete sluts when not in one. Idk, I found the more promiscuous a guy was, the more baggage he had.
I ended up finding a guy who I've settled down with. 5 years strong, monogamous and want to get married in a few years. It's possible, just hard, sadly.
I worry that the degenerate types will give ammo against us that just want to assimilate.
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the "one" gay guy? idk man. I think the only ones that aren't complete hoes would be nerds that sit at home all day and somehow by some miracle haven't
ed out.
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I like them buff.. I'm fricked
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Are you buff? Maybe find a Buff For Christ gay.
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I'm trying
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Ya best way to attract a buff guy is to be buff. How's ur weight lifting?
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I recently went back to gym. I'm hoping this time I can push through my tri monthly "It's over, why bother, let me rot" depression that makes me want to do nothing
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What makes you feel that way? Is it a lack of progress?
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Oh no last time i went to gym i had classmates try touch my biceps every 5 minutes.. I just have other real life problems and enter some stupid doom spiral where i think about multiple of problems i have and then just can't figure a solution for each and just become depressed. Like being stuck in a tunnel with no light nearby at all.
So i turn to video games and neet away, except i got a job too now..
Think of it like this: i have 1 life problem, i move on. I get another problem, i fall into depression, i finally move on, get another problem in a few months.. repeat,
Maybe a better methapor is life being a treadmill and me currently rolling on it
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