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Why are y'all being so weird about this, I don't understand. The dudes helping a single mom care for the kid yet all y'all assume that he wants to frick, it's so weird
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Ok, so to give you some context, I'm mildly "poly flexible." I would be totally OK with my wife banging some other dude sneakily on the regular (while practicing safe s*x, of course) as long as I'm getting at least as much s*x as her with my own side-chicks. I know it sounds weird, but I'd be OK with that. As long as both people are getting the same amount of s*x, I'm not a jealous guy. I may be divorcing my b-word wife for cheating on me, but that's totally reasonable - cheating is very different from a mutually negotiated arrangement.
The reason I mention it is because as a neurodivergent, I'm much more tolerant of unconventional relationships than most people, and I still think this is weird and crazy. Imagine working to raise somebody else's kid and you're not even getting any s*x out of it! If it makes him happy that's cool I guess, I'm not gonna kink shame. But most of these men aren't really happy, they're just wasting a lot of their own valuable time and energy trying to score a few crumbs of . Worrying too much about other people's problems is not a good way to find self-fulfilment or happiness.
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