God bless this mess 
boyfriend 
https://old.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/sy1s7q/aita_for_not_picking_a_side_when_my_two_sons_argue?sort=controversial
Yesterday we decided to have a small gathering with the four of us ( me, my wife and our two sons ). We ate a delicious meal, we talked a lot, in general we were having a good time. I could tell that there was some tension between our sons but I thought that they could handle it. Then I decided to ask Ben βwhat is [his boyfriend] doing now?β, to which James replied βyeah, what is she doing?β. This immediately angered Ben, so they started insulting each other. Luckily I managed to change the subject and tell them to calm down before they started an actual fight.
Redditors triple mad in the comments that the parents aren't bothering with sibling petty squabbling and coddling the adult son with hurt feelings.
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OP is the butthole but not for the reason they claim. He's the butthole for willingly letting his son date a mentally ill person who will almost definitely threaten suicide if OP's son ever tries to break up with the train. I can guarantee you there's a lot of drama to come from this relationship and the brother is the only one aware of this and trying to bully his brother into realizing he's fricking up big time
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