>My boyfriend is open to quitting porn or trying to but I’m afraid that will just increase his attraction to other females he comes across in person because their revealing skin will stand out to his mind more than before. What do you think?
>He said there’s no reason not to try decreasing our porn use if it only means good things for our relationship, connection, and both our mentalities and mental health. i’m very happy with how it went. we were honest in which we know it will not be easy as we’ve been so used to watching porn for over 14 years so cold turkey is difficult but mini steps are a great start. I hope to see improvement in my mentality and our relationship as a whole :) Step one: communicate and express our feelings. both in agreement to try decreasing our porn usage until we stop watching completely. step 2, lets see how it really goes!
it wasnt until i physically saw him jerking off to another womans face as she sucks peepee after we just had s*x that i felt absolutely sick to my stomach
holy shit what an L post
>the fact that he pulled porn out within 10 seconds of me walking away doesn’t sit right w me
>I’m uncomfortable with my boyfriend watching porn bc of this incident that happened last month and i spoke to him about it last week. He’s agreed to try stopping and has admitted it is difficult which i know it is and he knows it was an addiction. Because I’m aware he gets tempted, I’ve been sexting him and sending him videos when I don’t really want to and its purely bc im anxious and afraid that if i dont, he will go online to watch some other woman satisfy his wants.
"I want my moid to stop using porn, but I don't want to send nudes."
>it sucks that i cant even feel attractive in my own relationship knowing he had a fetish for asian women, likes blondes, and huge tits with “b cups” as the “perfect size” (i know this not from overthinking but bc he shared it with me) even though im an A & south asian tan
i looked at him bc usually we look at each other during naked scenes and he usually looks away but he didnt this time. he just stared. he just watched. then after 30-40 seconds he turns away saying oh i cant watch that im not gonna watch that but like- you just did. without turning away. i was upset and told him not to bother and to just watch it bc i cant forever control what he watches and then he was upset by my reaction/response and watched the entire scene. i was bothered and never brought it upto him. still bothers me to think about it but not worth mentioning as it would be “my fault”.
>yeah. thats what this is about. my partner and i are in constant disagreement with this topic. He is latinx and believes that bc he works in a black “hood” area and grew up in the city which he calls the ghetto, he has every right to say it. i disagree.
>He said he only cares about the opinions of black people who are from poverty areas because they’re oppressed the most so he’d care only if they did.
>i told him he’s literally excluding every other person’s opinion including every black persons opinion if they aren’t from the “community he’s specifying” and he sees zero issue with this. he just kept saying he doesn’t care if they aren’t from his community.
>he’s also against using people’s pronouns bc it goes against freedom of speech like how fricking narrow-minded are you? and told me he’s careful around my family bc we’re “uptight” about things like this.
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In the beginning of my relationship, my boyfriend told me all about how he fetishizes asian women and large breasts and made it obvious about what his type is. Complete opposite of how I look. He even told me I wasn’t his type physically. Yes, dumb of him to ever say that he knows that too. With things he’s said in the past it makes me feel insecure about myself when I know hes watching porn with asian women and large breasts as i am literally a brown girl with small breasts.:
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This b-word invalidates animesexuals and the entire ALGB+ community:
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This foid's boyfriend decides to try quitting porn for her:
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Moid doesn't want to quit le porn:
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Coomer has s*x once, foid doesn't want to go out, immediately whips out pornhub and peepee lol:
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