This isn't ironic or a joke
I've memed too hard and too long cheekily correcting people like this
In my head Steve is a woman by default and I have to remind myself that if I actually say "she" then people of gender haters will either take it as a joke (rDrama) or get very angry (kf, ovarit) but in actuality it isn't even a conscious choice
Starting to type about bard I default to she/her pronouns without a second thought
Be careful !transphobes
Learn from my mistakes
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why would
you not default 
to she/her??? 
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I just don't think Steven is a name very becoming a lady and I want to encourage her to actually change it on more than social media
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dangerous bardmisia, you can't encourage someone who is threatened by assassins every day to go outside in the unlivable wet bulb temperatures of texas
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!texas
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But it's really cute for a girl to have a boy's name, like Michael Burnham on STD. Isn't that cute and quirky?
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No, it's really not. If it's something that has been successfully androgynized like Alex and she's enough of a tomboy it can work, but most of the time no.
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