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johannesalthusius they/them '); DROP TABLE Users;--  9mo ago (nytimes.com) 368 thread views #245051

"Surprisingly, views on gender norms didn't make much of a difference: On average, both men and women in the sample expected the man to pay, whether they had more traditional views of gender roles or more progressive ones."

https://www.nytimes.com/2024/02/10/business/gen-z-dating-pay-etiquette.html 

								

								

									
									

									
								

							

							

								
									
								
							

							

								
	

							

						

						
						

							

								
							

						

					

					
						

							
							
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What kinda soy doesn't pay after a good date? The only time I split a bill is if I genuinely didn't feel a spark. It's worth investing in your future :marseyremember: if you feel rhat connection imo

						


						
							

							

								
									
								
							


							

								
	

							


							

								

									

										
										

									


								
						

					
				


				

				
					
	

	
		

			
		


		

			

				
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Just do coffee dates if poor and pay the whole thing. $12 for like 2 coffees and a little muffin or whatever

						


						
							

							

								
									
								
							


							

								
	

							


							

								

									

										
										

									


								
						

					
				


				

				
					
	

	
		

			
		


		

			

				
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You can also bail whenever, much better than having to sit through dinner with some braindead idiot.

						


						
							

							

								
									
								
							


							

								
	

							


							

								

									

										
										

									


								
						

					
				


				

				
					
	

	
		

			
		


		

			

				
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Guys with game don't pay. Women like you more if they don't feel like you're just paying for their time

						


						
							

							

								
									
								
							


							

								
	

							


							

								

									

										
										

									


								
						

					
				


				

				
					
	

	
		

			
		


		

			

				
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I mean, don't you just feel gross :marseyimpossibru: letting a woman :marseysuffragette: pay for you?

						


						
							

							

								
									
								
							


							

								
	

							


							

								

									

										
										

									


								
						

					
				


				

				
					
	

	
		

			
		


		

			

				
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You are not a free man. Other people are so deep in your head that you follow their design while thinking it's your idea. You even internalized and propagate their shaming techniques.

						


						
							

							

								
									
								
							


							

								
	

							


							

								

									

										
										

									


								
						

					
				


				

				
					
	

	
		

			
		


		

			

				
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it's not paying for their time, it's being the host when you're the one who invited them. it only becomes paying for their time if you keep doing it again and again rather than saving it for when it matters.

						


						
							

							

								
									
								
							


							

								
	

							


							

								

									

										
										

									


								
						

					
				


				

				
					
	

	
		

			
		


		

			

				
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