"Surprisingly, views on gender norms didn't make much of a difference: On average, both men and women in the sample expected the man to pay, whether they had more traditional views of gender roles or more progressive ones."

https://www.nytimes.com/2024/02/10/business/gen-z-dating-pay-etiquette.html

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johnnypoop Sein/Feld MasterBaiter 4mo ago #5921125

What kinda soy doesn't pay after a good date? The only time I split a bill is if I genuinely didn't feel a spark. It's worth investing in your future :marseyremember: if you feel rhat connection imo

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Chudlite Ho/hum johnnypoop 4mo ago #5921309

Guys with game don't pay. Women like you more if they don't feel like you're just paying for their time

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eager_toilet they/them Chudlite 4mo ago #5921973

it's not paying for their time, it's being the host when you're the one who invited them. it only becomes paying for their time if you keep doing it again and again rather than saving it for when it matters.

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johnnypoop Sein/Feld MasterBaiter Chudlite 4mo ago #5921331

I mean, don't you just feel gross :marseyimpossibru: letting a woman :marseysuffragette: pay for you?

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J_K_Rool i/me I am biologically incapable of getting off unless carp is crying johnnypoop 4mo ago #5931451 Edited 4mo ago

You are not a free man. Other people are so deep in your head that you follow their design while thinking it's your idea. You even internalized and propagate their shaming techniques.