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Advice required from Men: how does one go about building a connection with you that can lead to love

https://old.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/1b8svg7/advice_required_from_men_how_does_one_go_about/

I am perfect on paper

https://old.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/16e1ht8/how_many_of_us_here_are_long_term_singles_3_years/

Half a year ago she realised why she is single and been working on it, so as you see very successful

Also this comment:

Me. 8 years. Because I can't find someone I connect with mentally, emotionally and spirituality :)

She is 32 so at her prime she couldn't find a Chad and she still going strong :marseystrong:

Also b-word been trying at her mid 30 friend zone guys

https://old.reddit.com/r/AskWomenOver30/comments/vzm826/meeting_new_male_friends_group_friends/

So the sub is legit femcel sub

Also she asked men help and comments she gets:

Woman here.

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The thing about dating 30+ moids is that they usually know exactly what they want at that point, and if they're single that's probably by choice.

this usually occurs at the 8 week mark of dating and from my perspective it feels like they do a 180 at the point that I start to get interested…

So I guess 'start to get interested' is a euphemism for allowing them to have s*x with her at which point they've got what they were looking for and move onto the next one.

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>its probably by choice

In my case its lack of choice. Do you know how insanely hard it is to find someone fricking normal these days? Someone who isnt fat, without the face piercings, the tattoos, isnt a complete r-slur, not on a myriad of psychiatric meds... I need to start filtering women out by country of origin again, but no longer in college so its a bit difficult to find foreigners to befriend quickly.

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I think you also just know exactly what you want and the women who you would have given a chance before now you don't.

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Oh I didnt give them much of a chance back then either. I knew precisely what I was after at 20. I found a great gal at 21 and we were together for years but drifted apart after a while (she got fat and increasingly childish). Been hard to find a replacement since its all terrible quality in burgerland.

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Sheeeeit this the truth right here. The obesity epidemic is alot more obvious when you're dating, it's gotta be like 40% of women at this age that are obese.

And yeah, I used to find the progressive virtue signaling chick kind of cute, but I really can't stand it now. I don't mind tattoos, but nose piercings in your 30s are pure cringe. It's also just like when you're younger, if you let them know you like them alot they lose interest and if you act like a peepee they are super into you. Thats whatever if you're just doing a hook up, but no way I want to have a long term relationship with someone like that

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Or they really liked her but her kitty game is weak af

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Waiting 2 months to get laid is a huge ick

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Yeah if I wait eight fricking weeks and she's awful in bed it isn't gonna work.

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