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I am perfect on paper
Half a year ago she realised why she is single and been working on it, so as you see very successful
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Me. 8 years. Because I can't find someone I connect with mentally, emotionally and spirituality :)
She is 32 so at her prime she couldn't find a Chad and she still going strong 
Also b-word been trying at her mid 30 friend zone guys
So the sub is legit femcel sub
Also she asked men help and comments she gets:
Woman here.
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The thing about dating 30+ moids is that they usually know exactly what they want at that point, and if they're single that's probably by choice.
So I guess 'start to get interested' is a euphemism for allowing them to have s*x with her at which point they've got what they were looking for and move onto the next one.
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Or they really liked her but her kitty game is weak af
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Waiting 2 months to get laid is a huge ick
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Yeah if I wait eight fricking weeks and she's awful in bed it isn't gonna work.
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In my case its lack of choice. Do you know how insanely hard it is to find someone fricking normal these days? Someone who isnt fat, without the face piercings, the tattoos, isnt a complete r-slur, not on a myriad of psychiatric meds... I need to start filtering women out by country of origin again, but no longer in college so its a bit difficult to find foreigners to befriend quickly.
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I think you also just know exactly what you want and the women who you would have given a chance before now you don't.
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Oh I didnt give them much of a chance back then either. I knew precisely what I was after at 20. I found a great gal at 21 and we were together for years but drifted apart after a while (she got fat and increasingly childish). Been hard to find a replacement since its all terrible quality in burgerland.
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Sheeeeit this the truth right here. The obesity epidemic is alot more obvious when you're dating, it's gotta be like 40% of women at this age that are obese.
And yeah, I used to find the progressive virtue signaling chick kind of cute, but I really can't stand it now. I don't mind tattoos, but nose piercings in your 30s are pure cringe. It's also just like when you're younger, if you let them know you like them alot they lose interest and if you act like a peepee they are super into you. Thats whatever if you're just doing a hook up, but no way I want to have a long term relationship with someone like that
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Lmao she trauma dumps or has some other glaring personality flaw, maybe she's just a total b-word. Who knows.
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Trauma dumping is seemingly so normalized that I can barely factor it into my judgements anymore. I just accept that it's probably going to happen.
Maybe I need to do some introspection on why this happens to me so frequently.
Current hyperfixation:
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With apps drowning a lot of foids in a sea of options they seem to kind of try to speedrun through potential hitches to keep from getting invested with a dude and then finding out afterwards that he has an issue with her trauma. It's the feminine equivalent of scrotes never opening up to a foid again after they get rejected by a partner for revealing trauma.
It especially gets bad as they get older because they both have way more trauma and they feel like they have less time to waste.
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idk I think it's a simpler case of women have a tendency to dump whatever negative thing happening in their life on you regardless of whether that's some past trauma or complaining for hours about someone at work etc
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This didn't used to be a thing though.
Could be the modern terminally online obsession with victim culture and therapy speak spilling over into personal lives though.
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I think it's just inherent, part of the 'support me while I raise the baby' instinct where support to them in part means listening to them complain
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I genuinely cant tsll if trauma dumping means they hate you or they trust you
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neither, they just identify you as someone they can use to dump shit onto
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Thank god I got side hoes
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trauma is an overused and fake word by "ppl" (f*ids) who have never actually experienced it. Actual traumacels keep it to themselves and cope thru substance abuse and/or dangerous or silly behavior
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She is probably just unbelievably aloof. A lot of these foids confuse playing hard to get with borderline frigid b-word.
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Please DO NOT announce to the site when you are going to masturbate. This has been a reoccurring issue, and I'm not sure why some people have such under developed social skills that they think that a site full of mostly male strangers would need to know that. No one is going to be impressed and give you a high five (especially considering where that hand has been). I don't want to add this to the rules, since it would be embarrassing for new users to see that we have a problem with this, but it is going to be enforced as a rule from now on.
If it occurs, you will be warned, then additional occurrences will be dealt with at the discretion of modstaff. Thanks.
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