If you haven't spent four years throwing elaborate parties to get her attention you may be a fakecel

Is this just the leftoid version of going to church or smth?

Yes, and like religionstrags they go because it gives their lives a narrative where they overcome the wrongs wrought by others.

Tried therapy. Within one session realized the foid was just going to make me tell myself what to do and to start doing it. Which is what a parent already does. Dropped out realizing I would be better off figuring it out by myself and should be able to as long as I can cut off all other connections long enough to fully recover. Successfully started improving but the foids in my life who knew started reeing about how I needed a therapist because I have been messed up for years.

I would have actually believed them and gone ahead with it but then the foid made the vital mistake of saying I was clearly doing better earlier and was doing worse now so I needed the therapist but far as I could tell I was actually doing far better than a month ago even now and the only thing that changed was that I told the foid I had stopped going to the therapist and was complaining to her about a frustration that day.

Women are unironically so bad at emotional labor ( Listening to somebody else have a bad day ) that their first and only solution is to tell you to go get a therapist.

It is also how I for the first time observed in built narratives in people. The moment foid conflates therapy = good now any man who is not in therapy is going to be seen as doing bad because now she has a therapy will save you bias.

This is why first impressions matter. The average normie will put you in a box and then have all their opinions be biased towards that box until and unless you change completely to the point that it is impossible to put you into that box again.

And I reiterate again, foids today are so shit at emotional labor that the average dramanaut is a better listener that the average foid.

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