Hello! Happy Monday!
We're kicking off this exciting week right and rolling out a feature I originally proposed back in January: mandatory pronouns! You'll be disappointed to know that my original proposal - which was to require pronouns at signup, and not allow any pages to be viewed for existing users until they set their pronouns, and these were all from a preset list of pronouns and neopronouns - did not come to pass, and the final product is the much more clever, much less hateful variant you see before you now. Everyone is a nice, gender neutral they/them by default. This cannot be avoided and is a million times smarter than disabling the site until pronouns are set and I am VERY EXCITED about this.
If you're not a they/them, that's totally okay! Just head on over to your settings page and you can correctly gender yourself.
Going forward, please remember to respect others' pronoun preferences. We've been lenient about this in the past, due to the confusion inherent in not having a dedicated pronouns field (and we are deeply sorry for the harm this caused), but now there is no excuse for misgendering your fellow rDrama users. It's 2022 and while the United States regresses to 1822 around us, we will not fall with them. Hate has no home here, and failure (read: willful refusal) to respect your fellow users' identities will not be tolerated.
Have a great week!
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mandatory they/them because change button 404s
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This is a non-binary site only, chud
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What are us enenbies supposed to do?
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I had to resort to abbreviation due to extreme and invalidating character limits
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https://mogaiwiki.miraheze.org/wiki/Pronouns/A
aer/aer/aes/aeself don't stand a chance :(
I'm just gonna go with she/they to represent my feminine and gender fluid with agender attributes on a high level
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fixed, my liege
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They clearly have they/them pronouns, so the gender neutral term Quing should be used.
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corrected, thank you
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What a chud
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Lol ur pronouns spell out sheit that's basically shit lol
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ahahaha
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YIKES!!!!
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lol time to cancel paypig status
nvm thank god for ublock
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Why would you block it
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Because it’s genderfluidphobic
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Imagine not already stating your pronouns in your signature
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imagine having a signature
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I… I… I can’t. I was born without an imagination.
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Imagine not just turning them off.
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imagine imagining imagination
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That's how people become r-slurred.
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I'm positvely seething, well done.
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First.
My pronouns are Sneed/feed
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formerly Chuck/frick
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Incredibly valid
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Mine are dude/lol
@Transgender_spez
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gender is a fed scheme to gather identifying information
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You tell 'em daddy!
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only 2 pronouns? bigots
i want ed/edd/eddy
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The kanker sisters
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I don't like that it has a background because now everyone looks like a paypig.
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Hi carp I noticed your character limits are quite oppressive. I wanted to correct my pronouns to spide/spideself to match my gender but I do not have enough characters to do so. Please fix this and stop oppressing me or you will be hearing from my lawyers. You have been added to two hate databases for this transgression.
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How will the admins deal with people deliberately choosing "joke" pronouns? I realize that all pronouns are valid but as a transmasc individual I find it deeply triggering to be forced to indulge people mocking my indentity.
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Frick off incel loser. Neopronouns are cute and valid!
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XLM is even better tho
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Won't let me use 5 characters despite saying 1-5 characters allowed.
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Please go to the chud drama bigot
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This unironically sucks. Just because you can doesn’t mean you should
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Its fixed. Now Frick Off.
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ModernMajor/General
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pls pls add an option to turn it off, I'm a phonestrag
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rdrama admins doing something to make the site more useable?! you must be new. they only add stuff that makes the place an absolute mess.
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Halloween 2021...
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pathetic
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Is this a plot to get all the rightoids to move to deuxrama.net?
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I missed the carp thread
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this feature sucks butt
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Great opportunity for me to announce my coming out as Hankgender (Hank/Hank)!
Thanks for being so inclusive!
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The button to change them in account settings 404s.
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not working bb tried God/ess
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looks like "godless", you dodged a bullet there
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oh snap ye imma go with smth else but imma get grassed later today so I’ll see u in a month bb 😘😘
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i still get to upmarsey bb n imma upmarsey u 😘 but I need to stop commenting daily frfr a neighbor here called me a power user ffs 😖🔫
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Have a good time! get some sun
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ty bb🥰 have the safest n smoothest trip to euro land soon sweetheart 🙏🏾
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Add me on groomercord first I still want to talk to you
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I can't use my real pronouns of bun/bunself. Please fix.
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Better late than never. Bet there’s tons of chud push back
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Thank you admins and devs for making rDrama inclusive and safe
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How do you change the colour of the pronoun?
Nvm figured it out it's the same as flair.
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I have no pronouns. You will not refer to me under any circumstances whatsoever.
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the flair is also huge
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can you show me what you mean? it looks slightly smaller than the name on both my phone and desktop, as it should
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@duck
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oh i thought you meant the pronouns flair
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They ruined my perfect design
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