Trust man if you offer something you just end up the emotional wet blanket, homework help guy, or the money guy or whatever they wont actually like you. Youll be tolerated but you wont even be a friend
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KatserKitty1987 10mo ago#4866857
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No, he's right. You need something interesting about yourself to draw people in. It doesn't have to be financial, in fact it's better for you if it isn't because flaunting wealth attracts gold-diggers who are best avoided. But there should be something about you that makes you unique and different.
Its not about being a gold digger or whatever its that people till just tolerate you. You wont get it unless you've been the supplemental friend. Youll be tolerated and you can join in with people if you catch them and beg and any help or support you provide will be appricated, but they will always forget to invite you places and you will be never as close with anyone as they are with each other. You should just be lucky people tolerate you
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KatserKitty1987 10mo ago#4867331
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Then be funny and entertaining. This is a skill that can be taught. People will tolerate even wildly antisocial personality traits if you're fun to chat with.
yes they will tolerate you if you are amusing to them but you will always be periphery you will always be secondary that was my point. Your response shows you have never dealt with this so you won't understand it.
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That's OK, as long as you don't prioritize them either. It's fine to have people who are just "acquaintance friends" who are fun to talk to but whom you don't have to care about deeply, and likewise it's OK for them to consider you an acquaintance friend. Problems only start when you put more effort or caring in than the other person
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Missed the most vital part of the recipe: have something to offer.
Most people already have enough friends. Unless you're a social butterfly, you've got to sweeten the pot.
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Trust man if you offer something you just end up the emotional wet blanket, homework help guy, or the money guy or whatever they wont actually like you. Youll be tolerated but you wont even be a friend
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No, he's right. You need something interesting about yourself to draw people in. It doesn't have to be financial, in fact it's better for you if it isn't because flaunting wealth attracts gold-diggers who are best avoided. But there should be something about you that makes you unique and different.
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Its not about being a gold digger or whatever its that people till just tolerate you. You wont get it unless you've been the supplemental friend. Youll be tolerated and you can join in with people if you catch them and beg and any help or support you provide will be appricated, but they will always forget to invite you places and you will be never as close with anyone as they are with each other. You should just be lucky people tolerate you
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Then be funny and entertaining. This is a skill that can be taught. People will tolerate even wildly antisocial personality traits if you're fun to chat with.
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yes they will tolerate you if you are amusing to them but you will always be periphery you will always be secondary that was my point. Your response shows you have never dealt with this so you won't understand it.
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That's OK, as long as you don't prioritize them either. It's fine to have people who are just "acquaintance friends" who are fun to talk to but whom you don't have to care about deeply, and likewise it's OK for them to consider you an acquaintance friend. Problems only start when you put more effort or caring in than the other person
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NOOOO I CANT IMPROVE ANYTHING NOOOOO
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