Trust man if you offer something you just end up the emotional wet blanket, homework help guy, or the money guy or whatever they wont actually like you. Youll be tolerated but you wont even be a friend
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KatserKitty1987 9mo ago#4866857
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No, he's right. You need something interesting about yourself to draw people in. It doesn't have to be financial, in fact it's better for you if it isn't because flaunting wealth attracts gold-diggers who are best avoided. But there should be something about you that makes you unique and different.
Its not about being a gold digger or whatever its that people till just tolerate you. You wont get it unless you've been the supplemental friend. Youll be tolerated and you can join in with people if you catch them and beg and any help or support you provide will be appricated, but they will always forget to invite you places and you will be never as close with anyone as they are with each other. You should just be lucky people tolerate you
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Then be funny and entertaining. This is a skill that can be taught. People will tolerate even wildly antisocial personality traits if you're fun to chat with.
yes they will tolerate you if you are amusing to them but you will always be periphery you will always be secondary that was my point. Your response shows you have never dealt with this so you won't understand it.
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That's OK, as long as you don't prioritize them either. It's fine to have people who are just "acquaintance friends" who are fun to talk to but whom you don't have to care about deeply, and likewise it's OK for them to consider you an acquaintance friend. Problems only start when you put more effort or caring in than the other person
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Thats called autism at best people will pity you unless you have something to offer them. Everyone else already has friends when a normie says "just put yourself out there just socialize more" they know its bad advice and your only purpose is to do shit for people and then be alone so your loser tist self doesnt bother them. You cant get better at socializing as no one wants to socialize with an r-slur when they already have friends and you cant make friends as no one wants an improperly socialized strag. Get used to it
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They think everyone is at worst a failed normie, the idea of the darkness which lies within the heart of tism isn't something they can accept.
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Have you tried not being neurodivergent?
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no
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Ok intoxication (of you and others) should fix that.
Also try helping people.
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It's all in your head bro
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Missed the most vital part of the recipe: have something to offer.
Most people already have enough friends. Unless you're a social butterfly, you've got to sweeten the pot.
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Trust man if you offer something you just end up the emotional wet blanket, homework help guy, or the money guy or whatever they wont actually like you. Youll be tolerated but you wont even be a friend
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No, he's right. You need something interesting about yourself to draw people in. It doesn't have to be financial, in fact it's better for you if it isn't because flaunting wealth attracts gold-diggers who are best avoided. But there should be something about you that makes you unique and different.
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Its not about being a gold digger or whatever its that people till just tolerate you. You wont get it unless you've been the supplemental friend. Youll be tolerated and you can join in with people if you catch them and beg and any help or support you provide will be appricated, but they will always forget to invite you places and you will be never as close with anyone as they are with each other. You should just be lucky people tolerate you
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yes they will tolerate you if you are amusing to them but you will always be periphery you will always be secondary that was my point. Your response shows you have never dealt with this so you won't understand it.
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That's OK, as long as you don't prioritize them either. It's fine to have people who are just "acquaintance friends" who are fun to talk to but whom you don't have to care about deeply, and likewise it's OK for them to consider you an acquaintance friend. Problems only start when you put more effort or caring in than the other person
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NOOOO I CANT IMPROVE ANYTHING NOOOOO
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"I'm so much better than normies"
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Just yourself breh
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he posts here he should absolutely never do that
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I feel this so hard.
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Thats called autism at best people will pity you unless you have something to offer them. Everyone else already has friends when a normie says "just put yourself out there just socialize more" they know its bad advice and your only purpose is to do shit for people and then be alone so your loser tist self doesnt bother them. You cant get better at socializing as no one wants to socialize with an r-slur when they already have friends and you cant make friends as no one wants an improperly socialized strag. Get used to it
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That's what guns are for
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more like haha
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Cope
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Lol people aren't 'cold' and don't 'single you out'.
They're like that with everyone unless you're a hottie.
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