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mom purity tests church for heckin valid views on 2SLGBTQIA++ degeneracy and "single parents" aka whores, dissuades son from attending when shocked pikachu they have christian views

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An update about my son wanting to go to youth group...

I decided to email the youth pastor before talking to my son. I asked the church's views on LGBTQ rights, single parents, how salvation focused their teachings were, etc.

I got back the attached email.

So I sat my son down and explained that this church would not accept his trans aunt and friends, his queer aunt, me as a single mom who's never been married.

His response was "well that's stupid, now I don't want to go".

People here were right - he was looking for a group to make friends at. We've decided on Scouts (Canada, much more liberal than the US version) and either swimming lessons or karate.

We are going to go to the Unitarian Church and see if he wants to go regularly.

SO RELIEVED. I am so thankful I have an awesome kid.

fricking unitarians lmao

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Hey, there's hope. My siblings and I were homeschooled in an evangelical home.
My sister is trans. I'm a single mom with two kids who have different dads. My sibling is non binary. My parents have come to change their views and love and accept us all.
My son was 5 when my sister transitioned, and other than a few awkward kid questions it was just a non issue. My daughter has never known my sister as anything but "aunt".
I hope for your sake that your niblings eventually deconstruct and see you as an awesome aunt who can help them process things.

Good grief talk about going off the rails. Two of your kids :marseytrain: out and the other has two baby daddies :marseyfacepalm: her parents must have done a heck of a job raising raising them

>go to evangelical church

>get polite, nonjudgmental email about their well known beliefs

:#marseypikachu2:

From her previous post she was having panic attacks at the thought of her son joining lmao

I've had several panic attacks over this and am truly stumped. I grew up in that culture and have fought for years to gain some freedom from evangelical beliefs and trauma.

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>unitarian

What's even the point? :marseysmug2: maybe she hasn't gotten as much freedom from religion as she might have thought

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Unitarians are just people who want a "feel good" community without any dogmatic strings attached because that can cause negative vibes.

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Unitarians don't count as Christian, btw, as they denied the fricking Trinity long before turning into a fricking political joke. Carry on making fun of them. :marseysalutearmy:

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Hmm, why is it that a church usually first loses the proper understanding of God, and then becomes gay and falls apart? Interesting pattern.

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scouts more liberal than the USA where they let cute twinks molest the boys and girls who go to scouts?

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"Each of you knows that the foundation of our faith is charity. Without it, our religion would crumble. We will never be truly Catholic unless we conform our entire lives to the two commandments that are the essence of the Catholic faith: to love the Lord, our God, with all our strength, and to love our neighbor as ourselves… With charity, we sow the seeds of that true peace which only our faith in Jesus Christ can give us by making us all brothers and sisters. I know that this way is steep, and difficult, and strewn with thorns, while at first glance the other path seems easier, more pleasant, and more satisfying. But the fact is, if we could look into the hearts of those who follow the perverse paths of this world, we would see that they lack the serenity that comes to those who have faced a thousand difficulties and who have renounced material pleasure to follow God's law."-Blessed Piero Giorgio Frassati

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