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Fwb touched my belly... and I didn't spiral - /r/plussize :marseychonkerfoidpuke:

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I want to share a positive experience ✨️

I have a new fwb and the first time we were together he caressed my belly. I remember noticing he did but I did not have negative thoughts or reactions. It just was. Later when we were cuddling he squeeze my roll softly, for a moment I giggle and I wondered if maybe he thought it was my breast but it was a quick passing thought and not a negative one.

When I was home later that night I was thinking back to those moments and how before I would hope the person I was with wouldn't notice or touch or be turned off by my belly. I thought about all the work and tears I have shed to get to this point of accepting my body as is. To accept if as part of everything I am and I felt emotional but proud of myself.

The next time we were together we were making out and he touched my belly again and I asked him what he was doing bc he was touching the side of my underbelly and just holding it and he said he was just feeling my body and then we kissed.

It only took years of therapy, and journaling, lots of crying sessions, packing my social media with bodies that look like mine, saying out loud that I am fat to get here. I am 37 years old and I am finally here.

I don't need anything from this post other than to hopefully give some of you hope that it can be done but you might need to do a little work. And maybe lots of fake it till you make it.

/u/greenteasmoothie138:

This was how I knew my husband was the one. No man had ever seen me 100% naked. Lights were always off, shirt was worn, or towel/sheet was wrapped. I remember one day after having s*x when we were dating I was in the bathroom with him waiting for the shower to heat up. We were talking about something, can't remember, and I felt comfortable. Then I thought, “Holy shit! I'm naked!” I didn't even notice for like a full five minutes and that meant something. We are going on 10 years and he sees me naked daily.

/u/promiscuous-girl1:

Some people genuinely don't see fat as anything negative and one time I was so upset about something my bf said but for him it was completely innocent and him just enjoying my body, anyways thank you for sharing 😁

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I thought about all the work and tears I have shed to get to this point of accepting my body as is.

Imagine if you would put all that work into being thin. I hate fat people, but I might hate their enablers even more.

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Does anyone want to live past 45 in America? Sound like a bunch of fatass winners

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The star that burns twice as fat burns half as long.

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fat people are really just alcoholics but with food instead of booze.

they will do and try literally everything except for just not being a fat frick.

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!boozers boozermisia

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I feel like alcoholics are healthier than fatties generally tbh.

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we're not in denial its literally just fermented fruit and water bro

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Yeah, definitly more healthy than the highly processed slop fatties eat

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idk if i'd go that far

agree that alcoholcs typically realize its not healthy though

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I wonder if young fat women feel less motivated because they think that by the time they lose the weight, they'd be out of their prime, missing the fact that men will frick a fit 50 year old before an obese 21 year old.

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:#marseywould:

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This shit infuriates me. Claiming they put in a lot of work, but not a lot of work to actually FIXING the problem, just a lot of "work" to convince themselves they can keep their bad behavior guilt-free.

It only took years of therapy, and journaling, lots of crying sessions, packing my social media with bodies that look like mine, saying out loud that I am fat to get here.

The only reason they did this instead of go on a diet was because a diet would've been actually difficult.

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keep those tears flowing and she might get some water weight off! :marseycry: :marseychonkerfoid:

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Permaban fats from life

Permaban fat fetishists from life twice


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promote !thin to admin

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All jannies are already thin verified except @JollyMoon who's too muscular to call thin

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Tru

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Just lose weight. Put down fork and go to walk. Its not that hard.

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Least fragile foid.

It only took years of therapy, and journaling, lots of crying sessions, packing my social media with bodies that look like mine, saying out loud that I am fat to get here. I am 37 years old and I am finally here.

Foids are such a joke :marseyxd:

Trans lives matter, unlike fats'.

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I'm always surprised by how many people have s*x with lights off in the dark ALWays

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its sin to see naked women

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Cute twink

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how do they even know what they are grabbing?


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>we were cuddling he squeeze my roll softly, for a moment I giggle

:marseysick:

>he said he was just feeling my body and then we kissed

:marseypuke:

>saying out loud that I am fat

:marseyxd:

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It only took years of therapy, and journaling, lots of crying sessions, packing my social media with bodies that look like mine, saying out loud that I am fat to get here. I am 37 years old and I am finally here.

Couldve just stopped eating ya big b-word

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:#marseywholesome:

True love

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>I thought :marseymindblown: about all the work and tears :marseyzeldabokoblin: I have shed to get to this point :marseynoyouoccupy: of accepting my body as is.

That's a lot of effort :marseymissing: to decide against going :marseysal2: to the gym and eating :marseysaturn: less.

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"GRINCHES could be here" he thought, "I've never been down this chimney before. There could be GRINCHES anywhere." The fetch wind felt good against his bare chest. "I HATE GRINCHES" he thought. Santa Claus is Comin' to Town reverberated his entire sleigh, making it pulsate even as the $9 eggnog circulated through his powerful thick veins and washed away his (merited) fear of grinches after Thanksgiving. "With magic reindeer, you can go anywhere you want" he said to himself, out loud.

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/u/greenteasmoothie138:

This was how I knew my husband was the one. No man had ever seen me 100% naked. Lights were always off, shirt was worn, or towel/sheet was wrapped. I remember one day after having s*x when we were dating I was in the bathroom with him waiting for the shower to heat up. We were talking about something, can't remember, and I felt comfortable. Then I thought, “Holy shit! I'm naked!” I didn't even notice for like a full five minutes and that meant something. We are going on 10 years and he sees me naked daily.:

/u/promiscuous-girl1:

Some people genuinely don't see fat as anything negative and one time I was so upset about something my bf said but for him it was completely innocent and him just enjoying my body, anyways thank you for sharing 😁:

https://i.pinimg.com/736x/8f/2a/c4/8f2ac47d35d73338b92d353348020a22.jpg:

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