Hey girlies…awkward question

Hey girlies.. awkward question.

I am 5'2 200lbs. For the past year I've been super out of shape and struggle with simple tasks. The biggest problem I've run into so far is wiping after using the bathroom. I am physically unable to wipe front to back anymore and I'm really ashamed and grossed out because of it. I also don't think it's just because of my weight but more on the side of just being out of shape.

What I've been doing is just wiping “the front” to the front and then wiping “the back” to the back. I never make the “back waste” touch the front it's just that I can't reach the front from all the way around.

This is really awkward to say but can someone tell me if this is still bad for my hygiene?

No, you're fine. Although I'd highly recommend getting a bidet.

I would try wet cleansing cloths after you use the regular potty paper. That way you can get a second layer of freshness down there. Bidets are great too.

Bidets or nah? I'm biased as an amerimutt toward Big TP tbh

Echoing what's been said. I've never wiped front to back. Front separate, back separate. Get a bidet, use wet tissues. You're good. You can also use ph balanced, non perfumed, non irritating cleansing gel or wash in the shower/bidet as well. dry tissues aint it. You're good😘

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