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Why :marseyconfused2: is there a height :marseylongsurfing: filter but no weight filter :marseychonkerfoid: on dating apps :marseyappicon:?

https://old.reddit.com/r/NoStupidQuestions/comments/1bly2yq/why_is_there_a_height_filter_but_no_weight_filter/

								

								

Because weight doesn't define health.

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A weight preference is not wrong. But there is a faction that is very LOUD that are trying to convince everyone that a weight preference is wrong. Those people need to shut the heck up.

You aren't a BBW. You are obese.

This causes a :marseysneed: storm.


Lots of healthy women's weight can vary by 20 lbs depending on the time of day and where she is in her cycle. Mine always has, and that is one reason I had to stop weighing myself everyday and just stick to weighing myself at the same point in my cycle at the same time of day in order to have a better idea for if I was gaining or losing weight or maintaining. So you could end up with situations where men claimed a woman lied about her weight when she really didn't.

Not only that, but lots of women just wouldn't put their weight into a dating app, so it would be a bit self defeating.

Sorry that chubby ladies offend you so much.

:#marseychonkerfoidpuketalking:


A weight filter would serve no purpose. People carry weight differently. A body shape filter would make more sense.

Edit: A lot of people could easily just lie, too.

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Hypocrisy my guy

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others have answered your main question but I just want to point out how problematic it is to think those who are bigger aren't healthy or health-conscious, or that someone being skinny automatically means they are either

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Being overweight 100% correlates with worse health, that's not "problematic" it's just the truth

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These peopwal are fricking idiots. It's because dating apps, like bars and nyightclubs, are fricking sausagefests unless u tip the fricking scales two attwact women. Ergwo, features that attwact women, like height fwilters, are fricking included, and features that repwl women, like weight fwilters, are fricking excluded.

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Yeah it's like a 1:3 slot to tab ratio. It's also hilarious how bad a lot of mens profiles are. Women's profiles are boring because they can be.

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Yeah it's kind of like that argument as to why men are coded as being funnier than women. Men are funny as a way to impress foids, it is a way to try to stand out amongst other moids.

Dating is a seller's market for foids in general. They really don't need to stand out out or do anything to get a date in most cases.

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Seinfeld explained it best: for women, it's like taking out the garbage, just put it on the curb and it'll get picked up. In the same episode George abstains from s*x and becomes a super genius because he can devote his brainpower to other things than finding a woman.

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"S*x is something women have, and men want".

Foids dont want to accept how true that statement is, but that doesnt change that its reality.

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i don't know how to tell you this, but you can also have s*x with MEN

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This but without the relationships with w*men.

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If it was 1:5 in the other direction you'd probably see breast size filter.

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>Looking for woman with MMM cup breasts, no lowballers, I know my worth

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Why hello there:marseygigatitty#:

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Kitty depth filter :marseyrapscallion:

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Id suggest anyone here set yourself as a woman on tinder and go through and see how fing creepy and terribad straight men truly are.

Don't even have to have a prof pic you'll be at 99+ likes in like 2 sec true story :marseylgbtflag3:

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Lol yeah. On of my friends showed me her hinge likes back in the day, half the messages were like "I'll pay you to pee on my feet."

:#marseyfeminist:

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Aren't men creepy? Did you know they tried to contact me on a site for contacting women?

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Hey b-word I wanna lick your armpits. Do you wanna step on my balls?

>sends obese peepee pic

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You can't send pictures on tinder tbf

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Maybe she shouldn't be fat if she doesn't like that

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u don't like fat peepee?

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Foid standards vs what moids think foid standards are.

If you exclude men that fit any one of the following criteria:

Cannot form a full sentence or are otherwise completely fricking r-slurred

Obese

ugly (not normal, ugly)

Unemployed

Substance abuse issue

S*x pest

Racist or otherwise bigoted and unable to hide it

Then I bet the ratio is closer to 1:1, or even tilts in favor of guys. When moids send their people to dating sites, they're not sending their best.

Women have incredibly low standards nowadays. It is astounding just how little they ask of men. They will do literally anything for good peepee.

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It's amazing what you can get as a dude and put in a modicum of effort. If you do it correctly, you'll be the one doing the filtering.

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This but unironically. I installed Hinge on a whim and had 3 dates within the first week.

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:marseych#onkerfoid: :marseychon#kerfoidindignant: :marsey#chonkerfoidpuke: :ma#!rseysick:

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When you follow rules 1 and 2 you can actually get quality women, even if you're r-slurred enough to be a dramneurodivergent.

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The problem isn't banging sluts or porking garbage tier it's a lot harder too find a women you can trust and isn't completely addicted too thirst trapping on ig and is above a 7 and won't drown the baby.

It's why every guy goes young. The more peen they've had the more damaged the more work you have too do tell she's fixed same problem with masters degree

Trans lives matter

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:#marseybigbrain:

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Uh, okay...

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NONE OF THEM HAD A WAIST SMALLER THAN 36 inches...

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Now exclude fat women

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No.

https://i.rdrama.net/images/1711302995024684.webp

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They know they're fricked alone like starving hooker by 32 bad. Thank god @FrozenChosen had a rich daddy or she would of had to settle with one of these scrotes

Trans lives matter

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I'd like weight filters to let you put in whatever you want, so that fat foids would put in catty oneliners :marseygiggle:

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Moids are reading Date-onomics

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Date-onomics claims more women than men.

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It's gender inverted because the book only counts college educated moids but the same arguments that gender ratios change behavior.

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Amazing summary of the correct answer

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https://media.tenor.com/s91B_Rm3fEQAAAAx/merry-christmas-to-all-my-facebook-anf-family-celebration.webp

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Holy shit looooooool

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/u/Ok-Committee-5867 how much do you weigh?

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No one is saying preferences are wrong.

He says on a highly contentious post about not wanting to date fatties.

The real issue is when men treat women they aren't attracted to (like fat women) much worse than they treat women they are attracted to, regardless of the context.

https://media1.tenor.com/m/Rm4UoBvEoFsAAAAC/the-dictator-what-the-f.gif

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I think the Redditor is saying that men are less courteous and respectful towards obese women than thin women, regardless if they are attracted to them or not. Which tbh is probably broadly true.

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Kek. Probably? We don't treat fat women like they are even human. And that's a good thing.

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Yeah I think it's a fairly obvious subconscious cue that most moids have. Like if I see an obese person in Walmart I am going to assume they are poor and lazy most likely.

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And your assumption would be correct. We're living in a post-truth era though.

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It couldn't come soon enough

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When I see a fat, I see a person who is slow, lazy and doesnt care about themselves

!slots100

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!slots200

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Darn

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Same is true with foids and uggo scrotes and manlets tho. Not that thats a bad thing.

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Wow

Just wow

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Treating “humanity” with any reverence is the problem here

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Almost everyone treats unattractive people less courteously and respectfully regardless of if they're actually attracted to them, obesity just happens to be an incredibly noticeable unattractive trait and women are so accustomed to the simp treatment that they think they're personally wronged when they don't have men tripping over themselves to get their attention.

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Everyone is less nice to ugly people. There are studies that hot people are favoured in job promotions or just get more help in everyday life. And being fat is one of the easiest indicators of someone being ugly.

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Not me! I'm nice to fat people. And stupid people!

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And stupid people!

Thanks :marseyheart:

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I've heard :marseyjacksparrow: that women :marseysuffragette: can't remember giving birth :marseychestburster: because it was so traumatic. Seeing a fat woman :marseyarthoe2: is the same for me. !thin

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I've taken shits like that after kfc and morphine

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Fat women also have vile personalities

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True of most thin girls too.

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They're at least frickable tho

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>The real issue is when men treat women they aren't attracted to (like fat women) much worse than they treat women they are attracted to, regardless of the context.

Now this is a bold faced lie. I find myself actually able to be friends with women I'm not attracted to.

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Lots of healthy women's weight can vary by 20 lbs depending on the time of day

Lmao this b-word eats 20lbs of food each day :marseylaugh:

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I'm glad that even Redditors are pushing back on the insanity of that statement

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You don't take 20 pound shits? :marseylaughpoundfist:

Everyone, get a load of this pooplet.


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That's insane. I thought maybe it meant 2 lbs but fat fingered the keyboard, but even that's a stretch. I think I may vary a pound or so depending on how hydrated I'm staying during that time. :marseymanlet:


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20 El Bees? Are you dogging me? Gotta be a rascalmaxer.

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The weight difference is whether their scooter's basket has anything in it when they roll onto the cattle scales

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To be fair, height is something you only have to put into your profile a single time, and it would be kinda cruel to make the porkers have to continuously update their profile, as they progressively pack on more and more lard.

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Because dating apps arent for men lol. Women are the primary target. They pander to women.

If there was a weight filter this would enrage most women and deflate their market value perceptions.

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Lots of healthy women's weight can vary by 20 lbs depending on the time of day and where she is in her cycle.

I don't know what the heck an lb is (!eurochads), but if you bleed out a significant enough proportion of your weight to not be eaten by the rounding error like it's a slasher movie, you should probably see a doctor or something.

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americans take dumps like their lives depended on it

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[–]Brain_Hawk 2812 points 20 hours ago

Many dating apps allow you too select certain body types, which is admittedly based on people's self-report.

Because this is a very popular feature, it is often located inside the premium packages, where you're paying money

>top comment

>doesn't answer OP's sensitive questions

>states the obvious to an r-slured degree

Why is reddit such garbage?

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Another one:

numbers are meaningless; pictures reveal everything

>top second comment

:derpwhy:

LLMs are trained on this data, so that explains a lot.

It is impossible to disentangle, or even to identify, all the factors but some of them could be:

Weight, being such a sensitive topic, could even be considered personal health information subject to stricter data privacy laws.

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It's a dating app. It's not regulated by HIPAA because it's not in the medical sector. It's not regulated by FINRA because it's not in the financial sector. It's social media. It's a dating app. What in god's name is this r-slur babbling about?

More from the same tard:

Weight can change dramatically in either direction. People often set up their profile once and never edit the fields. Even if a person's weight was displayed and accurate at the time of publication, it may be out of date and completely inaccurate at the time you see it.

>it's literally impossible to update your weight whenever you want

:soyreddit:

>fat stupid people are too lazy to edit their profiles

He was so close to getting it right. Still, people would want to advertise their weight, especially they lost some.

Honestly, he seems to believe your weight can change by 50% within a day.

Yes, a woman who says she wants a 6 foot tall man is socially tolerated more broadly than a man who says he wants a 100 pound woman.

Still doesn't answer the question.

Dating apps (and dating in general) suffers from gender imbalance. In effect, men will join any dating app, but women need a reason to join. Allowing men to filter women by weight would detract many women.

>gender balance

Aside from the soy science, he's onto something:

>women lie and are shallow, so a weight field would filter them which is bad for the dating app because it wants more users to sell more data and ads to.

>detract

I think he means "discourage." Weird use of "detract" here.

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Lots of healthy women's weight can vary by 20 lbs depending on the time of day and where she is in her cycle

a whole 20lbs? Lmfao

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Man we would be better if we didn't all lie to each other. I'm 185 lbs the same weight as these women at 15% body fat and I know none of them are anywhere near my strength. The number of fatasses who think their body fat is the same as mine is :marseydepressed:

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>Lots of healthy women's weight can vary by 20 lbs depending on the time of day

:marseywtf2: thats insane i dont think ive had more than 10lbs variance over the course of years

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>Lots of healthy women's weight can vary by 20 lbs depending on the time of day and where she is in her cycle.

Pro boxers struggling to make weight absolutely btfo

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women's weight can vary by 20 lbs depending on the time of day and where she is in her cycle.

Neighbor no normal person's weight varies by 10kg depending on day or time if the month :marseyuterus: if this happens to you, you need to see a doctor!

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>Because weight doesn't define health.

Lol, these """people""" are truly delusional.

Trans lives matter

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Having to tag each photo with what year it was taken would be better

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Lots of healthy women's weight can vary by 20 lbs depending on the time of day and where she is in her cycle

Read: 20 not 200

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It's still r-slurred. You don't gain/lose 20lbs within a month. That'd be over 5lbs / week even on an unhealthy crash diet that is be barely doable. And remember it's "depending on time of day".

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Edema? Ascites maybe?

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I actually kind of agree with redditors on this-HOLD FIRE!- because I have dated women that were 95lbs and 130lbs and they were both hot and not fat. Height and muscle mass makes a huge difference in weight regardless of bf%. i guess you could still filter >160lbs and only lose out on truly Amazonian pelvic pulverizing kitty.

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<100 pound women

Are you dating children or Koreans?

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Short thin whites and athletic latinx

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I once dated a Chinese girl who weighed 87 lbs.

She really was alarmingly thin.

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