Of course r/PlusSize doesn't understand why fat = ugly ( = )

I recently had a conversation with my boyfriend about this, because I couldn't get past the idea that my being fat meant I was ugly. We were talking about physical preference in partners, and he told me my size wasn't attractive to him. BUT he found me very attractive. He loves my eyes, my hair, my nose, my height, even my ears lol. There were a ton of attributes that made me attractive to him, and only one that wasn't attractive.

lol that guy wants to tell her to lose weight so much but is too much of a kitty to just say it directly