Lady who is literally the size of two healthy women is crushing on a human shaped photographer. The whole thread is fat bitches soapboxing about how shallow it is to reject someone for being 150 lbs overweight. It has everything. Muh condishuns:
That's not always the case, though. What if they have a health issue that has caused the eight gain? That's the issue I deal with. Horribly injured my back and have had 2 surgeries and need a 3rd. I have permanent nerve damage, and I'm not allowed to exercise because my back has just gotten worse because I reherniated a disc and now have a second one. I was diagnosed with a degenerative disc disease, and that's why my back messed up. If someone judged me just by looking at me, they'd be wrong AND miss out on a nice person. Which people do to each other every day. It's important to know the person first.
you injuring your back isn't causing weight gain
you eating too much is causing your weight gain
every time i was immobile or sick or bedridden or went through a period where i wasn't going out a lot, i lost a considerable amount of weight so i'm not sure why you think you're unable to lose weight because you can't move around alot
Noooooo it's impossible to lay in bed without eating a whole wedding cake by yourself.
Muh fatphobia:
Nope! I'm on ozempic for weight loss and wouldn't entertain anyone who's fatphobic /doesn't like fat people / equates “active lifestyle” to thinness
Not being attracted to fat people isn't fat phobic. A sexual preference is just that: a sexual preference.
But it's not the case here, more than likely. It's fine to have a preference. It's NOT ok to express that preference in this manner.
Lol she's projecting her insecurities so hard. The dude hasn't even said anything about this fat b-word's weight.
I agree. It's all superficial. I wouldn't give him the time of day
Again, the dude literally has not said anything about her weight. His only crime is being friends with a fatty.
Nah. Let him miss out.
Yeah let him miss out on a 300+ lb woman.
No. Because they are guided by superficial values. You can't build a life with someone so flaky.
Superficial values like discipline, basic self control, and not being a trashy human garbage disposal sharting your spanx in Walmart. Be mature and date chicks who smell like sewage and have moldy flip flaps.
Does not wanting to date a fat person make you fat phobic?
Honestly, it should be legally mandated that hot guys date 
s, fatties, and women over 35.
No. Accepting that attitude would feel too pick me-ish
Ladies, does being under 300 lbs make you a Pickmeisha?
Endless comments about how fat people are super active:
Fat people travel and hike all the time. I think you might be baking general assumptions bc most men won't be friends w a fat person IF they are truly fat phobic.
Loads of pregnancy comments:
No.. let's say you loose the weight.. and you get pregnant life is busy with a new born you gain weight, then what ?? Will he still stick around
I do not fault him because I dont want to be with him… It's my preference to be with someone that will not dump because gained weight during pregnancy
Burgers literally think it's impossible to get pregnant without becoming morbidly obese.
No I wouldn't. As someone who has had severe ups and downs in their weight because of medical issues/medication side affects, and who is about 70-100 lbs over what is recommended for my height, I have to be accepted as is. The right person is going to like/love you as is.
DO NOT BETTER YOURSELF! Just find a blind guy.
I have been attractive woman all my life. My weight fluctuates depending on my mental state. I am an emotional eater and in stress I tend to over eat which results in me putting on about 15-20 kg of weight.
I become invisible to men and women treat me much better.I have accepted this as difficult truth that people will be more into you if you are attractive and are their type physically.
Whooooa people will be more attracted to you if you're attractive 
And some lil nuggets of truth for fatties to seethe over:
The surreal thing is everyone acting like not being a BBW fetishist is just a preference that some shallow people happen to have. Are the soapboxing whales in there lusting after dudes riding their rascals in the frozen potato skin section of Walmart? Or maybe the same fit, conventionally attractive Ryan Reynolds neighbors as every other foid? Would OP be lusting after this dude if he was 400 lbs?
Also pretending morbid obesity is just some superficial trait. No b-word, it means you treat your body like a dumpster. Gluttony is inherently wrong. If you eat 2,000 extra calories per day, something is wrong with you, periodt 
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I've gotten into arguments about fatphobia being “shallow.” I argue that your physique is an extension of your personality. People aren't born fat; their lifestyle and many series of decisions lead them to that point. I wouldn't date a fat person for the same reason I wouldn't date a heroin addict or a hoarder – they live an unhealthy lifestyle. That way of living is only compatible for those who don't want the best out of themselves or others !fitness
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Agree but also, so what if it is shallow? Weeding someone out immediately upon seeing them based on the fact they are repulsive doesn't require anything deeper.
Like what do they want, a mandatory month-long trial? As if that's going to help their cause.
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It's literally the least shallow aspect of physical attraction lol, "don't be repulsive" is not a high bar. It's amazing how these chicks don't realize they're basically incels seething guys they like don't want to frick them
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It's just unattractive. I don't think anyone needs a justification beyond that. Like I wouldn't expect to be physically attractive myself if I put on 100kg.
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Yeah this is why you shouldn't associate with people to take ozempic. It's spiritual fatness.
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I mean people are literally born fat, that's what a baby is. But I get your point
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Slim people shouldn't be going anywhere near fatties for dating. Just no.
Being 37 now and seeing how every fat b-word I knew from my twenties is now even fatter, while all the thin ones are still t hin, moids just don't put any effort into a fat woman.
Even if you somehow coax one into losing weight, it won't last and they'll put it all back on and more.
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Pretty much. They've all been 'losing weight' for years now and can't ever seem to manage it. They get bfs anyway though so I guess that's the reason for the lack of motivation.
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This image is devastatingly bleak I love it
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A lot of men are meek these days. They just take whatever they can get and are okay with the status quo of knowing life will never improve. I see relationships around me and a lot of folks decide as a pair on how to handle things. Its dumb. I personally decide every aspect of my wife her life. And she enjoys knowing that she doesnt have to make decisions. I decide about the finances, her studies, job and friends, down to the little things like what we keep in the fridge.
There is a reason men decided for women for centuries. Its also much easier to take blame as a man when a decision goes wrong. Women take every mistake as a personal failure for some reason and it can turn a good wife into a debby downer.
Its not even a religious thing, it just makes sense.
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Though that much is true. Most people don't like freedom nearly as much as they think they do.
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It's funny when women get mad at being fetishised. Spoiler: Every man you ever meet is going to be interested in you because you're sexually attractive. He just doesn't bring it up much because otherwise you'll stop talking to him.
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Straight men pursue women because we want to hear the plots of trashy reality shows in exquisite detail, not because we're attracted to them.
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True love is watching your wife eat herself to death because she could get into a car crash so it doesn't matter if she acts like an invalid right now.
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“It's NOT ok to express that preference in this manner.“
“What manner?”
“Any manner.”
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“Disgusting that you could be so shallow tbh.”
“Understandable. Well, my friend Archibald is great, not shallow at all. Here's a picture of him. Yes, he lost his nose because he kept slicing small pieces of it off in pursuit of the coom, it's his thing. And he hasn't stopped btw, and probably won't. Do you want to meet him? Why not?”
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