So, I'm somewhat active on NSFW Reddit, and I'm a big fan of the sub Reddit on my SFW account. Today I had an interesting experience. I was feeling some type of way and posted a personal ad. Obviously, you're not allowed to post pictures there. I describe myself as a curvy brunette. Maybe I should've used the word plus size. I'm about a size 16, and my size has never been an issue in real world dating.
However, just now I had a guy say that curves are fine, but I'm a bit chubbier than he's used to. Obviously, I know what I look like, and I don't have to be everyone's type. The thing that offended me the most was that instead of ending it there he said that we could still chat.
I asked him why he would want that if he didn't like me physically. He said that I could still "please" his mind and that was incredibly rare. I guess this is why we post full body pictures on dating apps. However, I can't help but wonder whether some of this is just internalized fat phobia like that it's not OK to like a plus size woman. I've had similar experiences with men who have expressed their attraction to me, but then they advised me to go to the gym or something like that.
Anyway, this experience has made me so much more empathetic to the issues that plus size women face in dating. I'm sure that men don't go out with me, because they don't see me as attractive. However, I've never experienced anything this blatant until I came to Reddit. Most guys are great, but ugh! It almost feels like your body is something that they are entitled to, and you must make it nice for them. Anyway, what do you guys think? Has anybody had any interesting experiences with online dating/NSFW fun?
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These people can never be happy. Lardoids can never be satisfied. They don't belong in polite society.
If you wouldn't date lards youre fatphobic. If you would date lards but prefer skinny women you're fatphobic. If you would date lards and prefer lards youre fatphobic.
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What's your weight
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5'6.5 107lbs
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She's a spinner !male feminists
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I'm the only pooner that's never been r*ped before you cant take that away from me
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Unironically keep yourself safe
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!petitelovers !thin
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Darn, this one might actually be FtM... or @Guzzy's lost twin, either or.
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You doubted the validity of a !neomoids member?
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We must watch out for any Chud scr*tes infiltrating our safe space, sweaty.
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I am the most valid pooner ever
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Are you a Gayden or a "real" pooner?
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Im HSTS. Girls only.
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Yay! We we can be friends now
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Do you lift sweaty? I'm 5'7" and 150lbs. Not massively lean by any standards, but you gotta pack some muscle on to blend in with biomoids and be able to tighten and untighten nuts on things.
@Devon don't know what you think you found in that deleted comment you reported, but I deleted it only because I'd responded to the wrong comment. R-slur.
@Devon picture of autocorrect suggestions illustrating the issue. Good detective work though.
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I just do my puny 20lb weights, and push-ups. Planning on upping it eventually. No roids also I only eat what mom makes me so I can't force myself to become a lardoid.
Frick my stupid shotamoder life
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Are you on T yet? I went from being a weakling to benching 200lbs max in like 3 years. It's cheat mode.
Join the fitness ping group if interested in some tips. You don't need the perfect diet to get big and strong, but you do need testosterone.
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I'm not roided yet, gotta move out for that first. I'm too much of a lazy trender to get a job . I have no choice but to get a job Jan 2025 though
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keep yourself safe if true
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Jealousstrag
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