Sorry if this post is vulgar but it's the truth. Anytime a guy DMs me (i never message first) doesn't matter what app they treat me like a frick toy. Any man that ever shows interest in me seems like they only care about s*x. Sometimes they're misleading because they'll act totally normal then all of sudden start talking sexual which makes me extremely uncomfortable to the point I feel like throwing up. (S*x absolutely repulses me to the point I think I may actually be asexual.) it's gotten to the point I can't even have a descent conversation without being asked something sexual
A few times I have decided to mention that I was almost r*ped in high school to a few of these men to see how they'd react- one apologized then immediately started asking me sexual questions. The other told me "I'd enjoy it".
It's mentally draining being treated like this and it's starting to make me feel icky. I want to date but people either hurl insults at me or treat me like all I'm good for is s*x, and it's starting to really really frick with me. It's like they're brainless zombies that can only think about s*x.
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Needs to stop trying to meet men at the local Architect Convention
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