Alpha widowed after 4 dates
Help! I only went out with this guy 4 times. Granted he came over twice and we cuddled and kissed on my bed. Everything seemed to be going really well and we had a 5th date planned but then last minute he backed out saying he didn't know what he wanted and didn't want to waste my time. This is after we had many conversations about what we wanted, LTR, marriage, kids, etc.
I think I fell into a state of limerence. It's been over a week now since he called it off and I still think about him all the time, look him up online, and feel anxious and a little nauseous about my current dating prospects. He was everything I wanted, great family, good career, connections to buy a house here in Hawaii which is rare since it's crazy expensive here… we seemed to have a lot in common to connect over as well and good chemistry.
I made the mistake of playing a Cardi B song in my car after he told me he liked Nicki Minage. I also made the mistake about taking about how chubby I was so many times and revealing health information I probably didn't need to disclose. I just feel so disheartened, maybe it's better to stay single then get into a relationship with someone I really don't feel great about? But then I think of “marry him, the case for marrying mr. Good enough” and I wonder if I should settle.
For reference, I am 34 but often told I look like I'm in my 20s. He was 32. Is that too young for me? I do want kids but not desperately enough to do IVF or egg freezing/sperm bank or anything like that.
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He was everything I wanted: he has money, his family has money, oh and he even has money to buy a house! Also we connected or whatecer
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"Why doesn't this sexy
ATMalpha want to be with me?"Jump in the discussion.
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If I ever become incredibly wealthy and successful, I plan to maintain two separate dating profiles: one where I flaunt my wealth so that I can hook up with attractive gold diggers whom I remorselessly pump and dump, and one where I pretend to be a middle-class dude with an average lifestyle so that I can meet women who are into me for my personality. That way, I get the best of both worlds: I can use hot shallow b-words for their bodies while still searching for a more worthwhile long-term partner
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No one likes your personality and you'll die alone.
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Mean
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Literally an afterthought tagged on at the end lol
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She's a chubby asexual gold digger who played prude with a millionaire younger than her.
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It never ceases to amaze me how slutty women often think that it's a good idea to make a dude whom they really care about wait for s*x to show how much they really care. Like if some other dude gets s*x from them with zero effort but they make me work my butt off for it, whom should I assume they're more attracted to? As a man, why would I ever feel good that a woman who puts out at the drop of a hat for other men expects me to wine and dine her in order to get the same outcome?
"No honey, you don't understand. I sucked that guys peepee within five minutes of meeting him, but the reason I made you wait until the fifth date is because I knew you were special!"
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Wow she just like me frfr
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Aren't you rich tho? Get a toyboy?
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lol
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At least he bought her a drink
before 
cramming his fingers 
in her
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Doesn't own a couch.
Huge red flag
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She also doesn't have an oven
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It might be someone living in one of those 400 sq/ft one room condos, which is also a red flag I guess
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Those are called studio apartments
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He just pump and dumped her and she can't realize it. Same shit as people going to SEA for s*x tourism and foids there trying to get a green card.
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Also, all 34yo women are told they look in their 20s. People are just being nice lol
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How would you know, FroCho?
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Bc it's a little game people play to charm you
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I'm curious about your
status, do you intend on bearing more dramalings onto the world?
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You know, I honestly don't know. I'm as fertile as the Nile (had it tested a couple years ago, both my mom and sister had “geriatric” pregnancies without effort). I have awhile for that but honestly even though I think I'd be a decent mom, I'd be very happy w/o kids. Kinda depends on who I meet. I would not regret not having kids.
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wtf no way! you look like you're in ur mid 20s
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Will people even say that to a busted
35yo ho?
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I'll find out in a few months
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kek
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Yes though the compliments will be incredibly vague while for other women it focuses on the features that did maintain with age
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Truth. It's what enables these gems:
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It doesn't sound like they even had s*x lol
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tf this mean
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Means she's r-slurred if she thinks this mattered
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Foids think moids care about stupid shit like they do
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Tbh I'd be put off if someone played a cardi b song, but only because she makes terrible music (unlike that
amirite fellas?)
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Please educate yourself:
https://www.distractify.com/p/cardi-b-and-nicki-minaj-beef
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i aint reading that
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maybe he was just gay?
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That would've been the best ending.
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Neither of the have good taste.
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At least the foids
of my generation 
knew how to keep this under 
wraps until they got married 
or pregnant 
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What do we reckon !followers?
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Lmao girl
Classic
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She wrote 4 succinct paragraphs, but painted the picture so well
lmbo, hunny
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34/32 is basically the same age. Get that bag, gurlie
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B-word you just waxed lyrically about him
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At 34, going on 4 dates with a guy without letting him hit is crazy. Prudishness is a young woman's luxury.
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Nicki Minaj > Cardi B and it's not even worth putting it up for a vote but I'll still do it just to see how homosexual (derogatory) rdrama really is
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Cardi B washed up and ain't no frickin soap involved
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Anime OST's and Videogame music>>>>>>>>>>>
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She sounds like walking
No wonder he ditched her eggless shell
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he smelled the gold digging on her
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Hey, he also dig her golden hole, they are basically equal.
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