For anyone prone to experiencing secondhand embarrassment, there's a scene in Molly Roden Winter's debut, “More: A Memoir of Open Marriage,” that should come with a warning.
Winter is at her home in Brooklyn. She has just had s*x with her boyfriend while her two children sleep upstairs. Her husband, Stewart, consented to her tryst, but feeling guilty, she dashes naked into the kitchen to text him: Don't worry, she writes, “he has nothing on you as a lover.” But instead of texting her husband, she accidentally sends the message to her boyfriend, who leaves in a huff, and later breaks up with her. Winter, devastated, begs her husband to come home to comfort her.
“I still get a little nauseous thinking about it,” said Winter, 51, who was sipping tea in the living room of her bright and airy townhouse in Park Slope, Brooklyn. “Talk about the cringiest, cringiest, most awful thing that could happen.”
It's far from the only agonizing and breathtakingly candid scene in “More,” which documents Winter's often turbulent experience of open marriage — the resentment and jealousy she felt toward her husband's girlfriends, the flashes of guilt and shame, and the challenges of juggling her obligations as a wife and mother with her pursuit of sexual and romantic fulfillment.
Winter is keenly aware that people may judge her for the behavior she describes in “More.” But she also said she felt compelled to write about her experience, in part because she felt that non-monogamy is so often depicted as something happening on the fringes, not as a lifestyle that married moms pursue.
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of course
I hope all of these polyamorous people get aids, unironically.
also, she's fricking hideous. just like every other polyamorous person. shocker.
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How Open Marriage is Like Iron Man
educate yourselves !chuds
lmao fricking b-word meant the Iron Man event
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Dramneurodivergents, what is your initial association when you hear the words "Iron Man" without any other context:
(no lying!)
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2 days of shopping with the foid in Bangkok will do that to you because the streets and malls have so many capeshit t-shirts for sale
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It depends on the context. She wasn't fat, and she says, "an Iron Man."
How are you oblivious to indefinite articles?
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When the r-slur dosent use them in the text post only when i watch the video and am subsequently disappointed to not see some blue haired capeshitter
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I don't know what any of the words mean because I have s*x.
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I was pooping on X (formerly chiobu) not you
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No bad targets during Total Chud War.
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there were extenuating circumstances aka shopping with the foid for the whole weekend
i may have shut down my brain too much to power through it
this was from yesterday so imagine that doubled
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Shutup.
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Hey, you try raising two kids while getting serviced by a devastatingly handsome Italian man who calls you carina!
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And she's an 8th grade teacher as well, don't forget! How can she manage to fit it all in, such a wonder woman!
Meanwhile, guys with jobs and families have been having affairs for years without needing to write a book about how great at multi-tasking they are.
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Kegel exercises
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If you're going for a gigolo at least get a French one who calls you "mon couer".
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God darn, she looks like my Uncle Larry ew, no wonder her husband was fine getting some side kitty and doesn't give a frick if she bones anyone else
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Yeah, that bit made me laugh. She rushes home to tell hubby all about flirting with a guy, clearly hoping that he'll be jealous and this will reassure her that she's still hot and desirable because she gets to brag that a strange guy was interested in her and hubby will be all "no, you my woman, nobody else gets to have you!", and instead he's all "go ahead and bang him if you want, hey opening up our marriage is a great idea!" and then he goes out chasing hot chicks, like any normal guy would do once given the chance. Who would be surprised about this?
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Lol this is not a biofoid
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incredibly jealous.
who wouldn't want to frick this
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lmao the absolute state of western """men"""
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i thought this was "it safe tish"
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Lol you believe
the foid?
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Believe All Women
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You never know, in a different context he could have been looking for divorce material so he could dump her and not get walked over in the divorce settlement.
This guy was just looking for the excuse to go out and bang hot younger women without giving her the chance to be all pissy about it because "hey, you started it".
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Source: wife
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kek her kids will get bullied into suicide and/or
ing out.
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Click the link and keep reading... one of her kids read the book! I think I would die if my mom (or dad) published a book about her kinky s*x life.
!clinklickers
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That's what you foids do, you are vile whores, so why do you act as if you are any better?
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Somebody would fricking die, that's for sure.
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How to instantly acquire a deadly drug addiction with this one simple trick!
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Just be my kind of insane, or beat the bullies up. Bullying is basically solved.
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Literally this phenotype
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Posting this here is spiritual violence against our resident incels.
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And here's way it's a good thing, Chud.
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*Bud
"Chud" hurts the precious feelings of me and my conservative friends
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shit might get them laid
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It's weird that people like this insist on staying in poly/swinger relationships when they can't hang
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God is dead, and we're living in the period after a civilizational collapse where people have to rediscover why water safety regulation was a big deal.
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All status quo and convention was put in place by oppressive white christian men, thusly we need to oppose/destroy everything that seems normal
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Yes.
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where's the lie?
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ITS LIKE MY HECKING ROMAN EMPIRE
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The long pole in our cultural tent is gone with the dissolution of religion. Now all of the cultural memory of "things you should and shouldn't do" is washed with it because we were taught those things under the auspices of "because god said".
So people think it's all like pork and shellfish consumption - we're better now. We're above these things. But we don't actually know that we're above a lot of those things, and given the state of affairs post-religion I think we're probably going to have to re-learn a lot of things with empiricism as the new standard. And that's going to be painful as we develop sample sizes and overcome the new superstitious paganism of DEI.
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Learning to deal with jealousy is a good thing chud
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It seems she's struggling in the deep end of the pool, hope she's learned to swim in the meantime
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People need to really, actually hurt to change, I think. Struggling and breaking your head on impossible things that keep you awake.
Our first birth was bloody. So will every subsequent one.
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“Our” first birth? My guy that was your bulls child
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Who's the bull for humanity? Satan?
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You forgot to upmarsey me?
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found the incel
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It's plain that she started this not because she wanted to go out and bang strange guys, she wanted to make her husband jealous to prove he still wanted her because she was still desirable.
Only it didn't work like that, so then she had to put her money where her mouth was and go bang strange guys while he cheerfully went out to the "salad bar" and had his pick of hot younger women. So she ended up jealous of him.
You shouldn't boast about being able to get s*x outside your marriage if you're not willing to commit to the entire lifestyle, and you certainly shouldn't give your husband (or wife) the chance to go out and bang whoever they like with no remorse about it because hey, this was all your idea in the first place.
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has any open marriage ever resulted in the moid getting more strange than the foid?
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Imagine going to "find yourself" and the only thing you find out is that you're a slut.
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"Finding yourself" is literally just foidspeack for being a massive whore.
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Trans lives matter, unlike legacy foids'.
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Useful info to have on hand though!
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She looks like that woman who wrote Man Repeller
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I can see it. Is there a "formerly-cool girl of Brooklyn" phenotype ?
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That's a lot of words for jew
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Wrong. Jews are eternally fetch.
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She looks like a character out of the Lord Of The Rings, but I'm not sure which race.
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All of these people should die. She's an idiot, her husband is an idiot, and if I believe this article, it's no wonder she wanted to whore around because her parents were also adulterers. If you want to chase strange, do it outside the home and don't bang your hookups where your kids are in the house.
Are we supposed to think she's so amazing and brave? This is just adultery, it's been going on for millennia, lots of aristocratic and royal families had 'open marriages' where both spouses had lovers. She's not as special snowflake as she thinks.
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Every time some polyamorous uggo speaks up, they list a load of problems, negative feelings, tumultuous and fragile relationships and consequences to fricking around that leave a trail of destruction in their lives, and yet never once does it occur to anyone that they can just stop doing it.
Just be monogamous it's easy.
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It literally reads like someone though "hey remember how much fun dating was in highschool? What If I can have all the downsides of a marriage AND go back to dating like I was in highschool"
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Polyamory is usually jumping through a lot of extra hoops and misery for little to no improvement in happiness. People who say they're happier being poly are almost always coping with being incapable of finding someone who fulfills enough of their needs, which isnt inpossible if youre not a defective loser.
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All I had to see was "polyamorous mom" to know that I want this b-word to die.
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Calm down kiddo, it isn't good for the heart to flood yourself with cortisol over normal things
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I know foid writing when I see it. No thanks!
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mrw polyshit
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Imagine sleeping with the bong off of the car show, but with a disgusting Brooklyn accent 🤮
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