Hey all, I just wanted to vent a little. It's incredibly hard for me to date since I'm trans. I used to not declare it on my profile and only shared that information, when I'm already chatting with that person through the dating app (early on) but since that has gotten me a lot of transphobic remarks, aswell as insults, I put it in my profile.
Now the problem is, I understand most lesbians won't date transbians, because of their genitalia, which makes sense, and makes it unlikely to match with another lesbian, but rather bisexual/pansexual women. Now I have gotten into a lot of matches thinking the other person is also into women, but usually it turns out they are just bi-curious and state that I'm "the perfect thing in-between" which is so incredibly insulting. Most of them don't see me as a real woman, but something in-between woman and man, because of my genitalia, which gives off chaser vibes.
I don't know how to go about this. If i don't declare I'm trans, I don't get chasers since I pass fairly well, but get a lot of hate when outing myself. If I do declare it, most of my matches are by bi-curious chasery women.
Idk what to do :( it all sucks so bad I just want a cute gf that doesn't see me as a man. (Most of my previous relationships also stated that they never saw me as a woman, when they broke up with me. Or I found out that they were actually into men and never liked women at all.) Help? :')
here is their pic. how many filters do you think they used?
Maybe you could try a sassy approach to dating app profile text? Something like: “Transwoman looking for a lesbian relationship. Chasers, bicurious flakes and transphobes need not apply”.
guaranteed tons of matches with this
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remember back in the day you'd see some frat bro all
yer a lesbian? you just haven't had the right peepee, cute butch b-word! 
and people generally agreed that was an r-slured stance?
now we have to validate the dudes who have that stance. we have to act like they are right and the lesbians are bigots.
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That wasn't r-slurred, all women are bi
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Turns out all the frat bro had too do was put on a dress and scream "trans lives matter".
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At least fratbros can be quite hot
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They don't want a chaser, they want a biofoid lesbian because it's the ultimate form of validation. The thing is they don't exist. Biofoid lesbians are obviously only into biofoid lesbians. It's in the name.
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