TLDR: Women and society did not tell men to be nice guys. These guys hear what they wanted to hear and came to their own bad conclusions. These guys WANTED to believe being nice would get them laid, even when NO ONE told them that was the case.
First of all, you're not nice if you expect a reward for it, so automatically guys ranting “Nice Guys Finish” are buttholes. Otherwise you wouldn't care that buttholes get laid because that would be irrelevant to you being nice. You would only care because you're only nice to get laid, which makes you an butthole too. Youre suppose to be nice because its theright thing to do.
“Be nice and girls will like you” is advice mothers give to kids. Why are men's understanding of dating not evolving with their age? Also, like I said before, when mothers say “be nice” who thinks that was code for “Being nice is sexually attractive and every women will get wet for you”? And I truly do not understand guys who look for their mother to give them a advice on how to get kitty. That's such a red flag.
Lastly, when Nice Guys explain that “society lied to them”: If it's not blaming mommy for not teaching them how to make kitties wet (because that's TOTALLY the role of a mom), it's blaming it on Rom-Coms. I don't know how a person can graduate middle school and still think movies are real life. Even back in elementary school, I knew romance stories were bullshit, so I don't understand how a grown man didn't figure this out yet and is so bitter about it.
I honestly think there is a problem with a lot of mentally stunted men being unaware how stunted they are because there are too many people in this subreddit normalizing blindly learning shit from movies.
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I don't think that's got much to do with growing up around women. That's about when most people finally start to figure out what they're supposed to do, women too who also have absurd ideas about men for a while.
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I was raised
by my mother. She always tells me "one day" or "just keep being a good person 
and you'll find someone". Guess 
my relationship status. Love you mom but that's just not how the world 
works.
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Yeah once I passed that age, I didn't want to hang out with anyone under 25 because there's just too much they don't know they don't know.
It's funny because the men complaining about nice guys vs chads are usually pro traditional households. Many conservative women seem to genuinely believe that if they cook, clean and raise a man's children, they will not cheat or leave them. Not to imply that all men cheat but plenty of "family" men whose wives dedicated their lives to them ended up leaving them for a younger model.
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This is why men should be able to practice polygamy
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Only if the granting of additional licenses is contingent upon their net worth. Also mandatory lifetime alimony in case of divorce initiated by the man or for domestic violence reasons.
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But i support domestic violence
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Yes the overlap between domestic violence supporters and/or apologists and polygamy supporters is probably over 50%.
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They sound like erudite gentlemen
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This is fricking stupid as it totally destroys the young guys at the expense of old fricks like myself.
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Listen GUYS I know this thread is about the bullshit advice MEN get about how to approach women and how it's wrong, but have you ever considered that WIVES who dedicate their LIVES to their HUSBANDS get divorced and left with nothing?? Have you??
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No. THIS particular thread is about making fun of purplepilldebaters and the ways they are too myopic in their worldview. Dude is out there making his whole life about his daddy issues.
Well actually, thinking more on it, I legit don't know if original OP is onto something. Do guys have older guys teach them the ropes? Like I see it in movies but I thought it was more of a Hollywood thing.
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Usually guys are expected to figure things out through trial-and-error or by witnessing the frickups of their friends and family and trying very hard not to do that
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Just another neurodivergent with no social awareness who probably hasn't “undone” any programming, just replaced it with something else
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