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“Be nice” was NEVER code for “Being nice to women gets them wet for you”. Nice guys lie to themselves. : PurplePillDebate

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TLDR: Women and society did not tell men to be nice guys. These guys hear what they wanted to hear and came to their own bad conclusions. These guys WANTED to believe being nice would get them laid, even when NO ONE told them that was the case.

First of all, you're not nice if you expect a reward for it, so automatically guys ranting “Nice Guys Finish” are buttholes. Otherwise you wouldn't care that buttholes get laid because that would be irrelevant to you being nice. You would only care because you're only nice to get laid, which makes you an butthole too. Youre suppose to be nice because its theright thing to do.

“Be nice and girls will like you” is advice mothers give to kids. Why are men's understanding of dating not evolving with their age? Also, like I said before, when mothers say “be nice” who thinks that was code for “Being nice is sexually attractive and every women will get wet for you”? And I truly do not understand guys who look for their mother to give them a advice on how to get kitty. That's such a red flag.

Lastly, when Nice Guys explain that “society lied to them”: If it's not blaming mommy for not teaching them how to make kitties wet (because that's TOTALLY the role of a mom), it's blaming it on Rom-Coms. I don't know how a person can graduate middle school and still think movies are real life. Even back in elementary school, I knew romance stories were bullshit, so I don't understand how a grown man didn't figure this out yet and is so bitter about it.

I honestly think there is a problem with a lot of mentally stunted men being unaware how stunted they are because there are too many people in this subreddit normalizing blindly learning shit from movies.

This sub is too :marseywords: for me to post any specific drama, here's one comment at least:

Must've been nice having a male figure in your life to teach you game if you are a guy. A lot of men don't and some like me grew up in all female households filled with dominant women. It took me until 28 to undo all the shit programming that was put into my head regarding attraction and dating.

You speak from a position of privilege and ignorance of it and your tone is arrogant and disgusting.

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That sub is cursed and boring. If you've ever wanted to read thousands of unlovable weirdos speculating about what's wrong with OUR SOCIETY that prevents them from having sex, you know where to go.

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It's pretty funny a lot of the time actually, one of the last truecel subs. It's just way too wordy to post here for the most part

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Just post the longposts and call it an effort post


:#marseyklennycross:

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I would if it was copypasta worthy, but they're usually just mildly entertaining. The length:funny ratio is way off, I'd rather just post :darcy:

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What a handsome perfect young man!

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Its not just boring, theyre completely r-slurred. Theyll take an neurodivergent and/or porn inspired view of the world, apply base level economics and think theyve figured shit out. Theyll consistently ask for sources but prove themselves unable to understand percentages and basic statistics. Others just go full incel idiocy, talking about how "its over for foids soon as we get sexbots and artificial wombs!" not realizing that their science fiction bs is both dystopian and will be far too expensive for them to even afford getting. None of these people live in reality and if you check their post histories, youll find theyre truly the biggest losers ever.

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its over for foids soon as we get sexbots and artificial wombs

This but unironically.


:!marseybooba:

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:marseydisagree: you'll keep me around for my shitposting potential.

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Youre the funniest foid here so if we have to keep one you get my vote :@jimiewhalespat:

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Bullshit.

Unless I can whittle it's self-esteem into the mud and make it frick my friends it'll never replace women.

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Slight necropost but yeah PPD is genuinely a safari of insane r-slurs. It's incredible seeing the various interactions between neurodivergent moids and neurotic foids as they invent increasingly deranged hypotheticals in an attempt to "gotcha" the other side's hypocrisy.

Like for this example: the angry moid neurodivergents see things like flirtatious teasing as active malice and assume that the not-nice guys that women fall for actually present themselves as mean to the woman they're pursuing. The classic badboy moid play is to seem off-putting/dangerous towards most people so that when they turn their nice-guy puppy dog mode on it makes the foid feel special for being the exception.

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That's why it's funny tho

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I'm guessing most of them won't approach foids and the rest talk too much about themselves

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I don't read it that much (I'm thinking about trying to troll it but they're kind of :marseynpc:) but it seems like a mix of:

  • "blue pill" men who seem to be about 19 taking a freshman sociology class and convinced if they just are really super feminist they'll be gifted a handjob

  • "red pill" men who are maybe 22 and graduating seniors. They've decided that women are all greedy sluts and terrible whores and as soon as they get that banker job and a BMW then they'll be drowning in kitty.

  • "blue/purple/other dumb made-up pill" women who seem to be mostly married women in their late 20s/early 30s who write a little too suspiciously smugly of their happy marriages. I suspect they have some doubts but they come to that sub to tamp down the buyer's remorse and reassure themselves that locking down the first moid who didn't try to slap his peepee on her face was the right decision.

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Sounds like the sexual politics of drama tbh I'm category three

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Congrats on your acceptable moid! :marseybride:

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locking down the first moid who didn't try to slap his peepee on her face was the right decision.

:#marseyrain:

peepee slapping is really funny tho

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Dude turkey slap lmao :marseyturkeypat:

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You could def troll them pretty good by just doing the :marseynails: FDS thing, you would just have to ignore their effortposts in response lel

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I need to make another normie-girl alt that isn't dramapoisoned and let it season for a while on MUA.

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Or just shitpost on reality tv subs, that's the big biofoid giveaway

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>and let it season for a while

:marseycringe2: God darn, girl, go on a real fricking date.

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Must've been nice having a male figure in your life to teach you game if you are a guy. A lot of men don't and some like me grew up in all female households filled with dominant women. It took me until 28 to undo all the shit programming that was put into my head regarding attraction and dating.

I don't think that's got much to do with growing up around women. That's about when most people finally start to figure out what they're supposed to do, women too who also have absurd ideas about men for a while.

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Yeah once I passed that age, I didn't want to hang out with anyone under 25 because there's just too much they don't know they don't know.

women too who also have absurd ideas about men for a while.

It's funny because the men complaining about nice guys vs chads are usually pro traditional households. Many conservative women seem to genuinely believe that if they cook, clean and raise a man's children, they will not cheat or leave them. Not to imply that all men cheat but plenty of "family" men whose wives dedicated their lives to them ended up leaving them for a younger model.

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This is why men should be able to practice polygamy

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Only if the granting of additional licenses is contingent upon their net worth. Also mandatory lifetime alimony in case of divorce initiated by the man or for domestic violence reasons.

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But i support domestic violence

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Yes the overlap between domestic violence supporters and/or apologists and polygamy supporters is probably over 50%.

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They sound like erudite gentlemen

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This is fricking stupid as it totally destroys the young guys at the expense of old fricks like myself.

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Listen GUYS I know this thread is about the bullshit advice MEN get about how to approach women and how it's wrong, but have you ever considered that WIVES who dedicate their LIVES to their HUSBANDS get divorced and left with nothing?? Have you??

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No. THIS particular thread is about making fun of purplepilldebaters and the ways they are too myopic in their worldview. Dude is out there making his whole life about his daddy issues.

Well actually, thinking more on it, I legit don't know if original OP is onto something. Do guys have older guys teach them the ropes? Like I see it in movies but I thought it was more of a Hollywood thing.

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Usually guys are expected to figure things out through trial-and-error or by witnessing the frickups of their friends and family and trying very hard not to do that

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Just another neurodivergent with no social awareness who probably hasn't “undone” any programming, just replaced it with something else :marseymanysuchcases:

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I was raised :marseynerd3: by my mother. She always tells me "one day" or "just keep being a good person :marseypussyhat: and you'll find someone". Guess :marseyshrug: my relationship status. Love you mom but that's just not how the world :marseyww1russian2: works.

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>dominant women

:#marseyhearts: :!#marseywinemom:

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>“Be nice” was NEVER code for “Being nice to women gets them wet for you”

Sure, and then when you ask "what will get women wet for me" instead you will run into the obvious catch-22 with some variant of the "only a hopeless incel would even ask this question, so try fixing that" response.

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OP is right, not being a giant crying kitty is the first step

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Just be yourself, unless you're terrible, in which case be better, sweaty.

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These guys WANTED to believe being nice would get them laid, even when NO ONE told them that was the case.

There's basically an entire genre of moid coming-of-age movies where this is the whole deal.

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Women just say what makes them look good, then attack you and deny it when called out

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Yeah, but it doesn't count. And romcoms don't count. And their mothers telling them to be nice don't count. Didn't you read the post? It says that NO ONE tells boys that being nice will get them laid, then enumrates cases when they are told exactly that and explains that none of that counts.

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Rom coms can be summed up as a foid meeting a bad boy, saying "i can fix him" and unrealistically succeeding

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I don't see abusers and wife beaters get the level of hate the nice guy does

Nice guys - true villians of the 21st century

Always have been.

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Dating advice from women is just another shit test

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He's not completely right, but he's more right than anyone there probably wants to admit.


:#marseyklennycross:

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Anyone normal that went to a normal school (i.e. anything that isn't isolated homeschooling) would learn this shit at like 16-17 at the latest, they just can't accept they're neurodivergents lol. Then you have the blackpilled ones who are just too ugly (they are right, and I do feel bad for them to an extent)

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The truest thing he said is that if you fell for it it's probably because you wanted to fall for it.


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I think in regards to being nice, it's more having consistent moral principles and sticking to them is attractive to women, the actual moral principles don't really matter. The problem with "nice guys" is the same problem I have with reddit soys, it's that there is a clear burning resentment under it and their "moral principles" just so happen to be the most socially acceptable of opinions....

The more I type the more I realize that "nice guys" literally describes how women behave and think kek.

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My brother reminisced that when he was in high school he thought of the girls in his class like vending machines, and if you put in enough "nice guy coins" the panties would drop- that this is what they were owed.

Thankfully he quickly grew out of this post high school, found a wonderful wife. They are both good partners to each other.

lol wut? Once I started lifting, got cocky and acting like an butthole I was drowning in kitty. Once I wanted a gf I toned that shit down a notch. How on earth are women such a mystery to these r-slurs

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that sounds like something he just made up lol

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how are women a mystery to these r-slurs?

You said it yourself, theyre r-slurred. Theyre also highly neurodivergent. The obvious solution is "go learn how to be normal" but because theyre fat loser redditoids, theyll just whine instead of fix their lives.

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