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JingleWhales she/bitch An educated, strictly organic, ortho molecular aware patriotic princess. 5mo ago (thecut.com) 2,349 thread views #275004

Why Dating Feels Like a Nightmare for Young Women Right Now

https://www.thecut.com/article/tiktok-videos-single-women-crying.html

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tiptopkitkat dum/bo I dont like you. 5mo ago #6520743

Haas swore off Bumble and Hinge more than a year ago, finding that most guys just pretended to want something serious in order to get laid. (Since posting her video, she says two men she previously matched with sent unprompted peepee pics.) Anissa, a 31-year-old corporate lawyer who asked to go by a pseudonym, tells me the guys she meets seem interested in “conquest” while she and other single women are “trying to just find their person.” She describes three male archetypes she has encountered on the apps: “He either wants to have s*x with you immediately. Or he's already in a relationship and is just so obviously noncommittal. Or he's obsessed with you.” One guy lied to her about his job and where he lived, another confessed last-minute to being in an open relationship, and the last man she went on a date with became overly attached to her after spending only a few hours together. She flaked on their follow-up plans. “There's a sickness where we don't see people as people because of the apps,” she says. “We always think that there's something ‘better' out there.”

Thats what you get whoring yourself out and not actually trying to develop a friendship with that person.

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laha they/them 550k / L7 / 9 YOE tiptopkitkat 5mo ago #6521275 Edited 5mo ago

This is a clear "common denominator" problem, similar to moids who complain that all women on dating apps are either scammers or just trying to market their OnlyFans... it seems like a valid complaint but it's actually a self-own that you are only focusing on women who are out of your league, so in the rare case you find someone who isn't a scammer she will have some massive red flags that explain why she's single.

In this case, the foid is obviously only swiping on (seemingly) wealthy single Gigachads and finding that the only ones who will pay her attention have issues. So she comes to the classical femcel conclusion that the problem is "all men".

I wish people crying about dating apps were forced to reveal their swiping history, because I'm guessing that in 90% of cases this would reveal the real problem.

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TR res/pect no second Troy :marseydoomer:

laha 5mo ago #6521418

>In this case, the foid is obviously only swiping on (seemingly) wealthy single Gigachads and finding that the only ones who will pay her attention have issues. So she comes to the classical femcel conclusion that the problem is "all men".

Foidbrain logic makes perfect sense once you realize 80% of moids literally don't exist to them. It's one of those :marseymindblown: realizations that you can't unsee.

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K9 she/it :marseycia:

If I pull that off, will you die? :marseybane:

TR 5mo ago #6523527

Foids say the same thing about moids, I think the issue is just uggos existing. They should stop that

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K9 5mo ago #6523708

nah moids are like the total opposite of foids in this regard, no standards at all, many moids will literally frick any 2/10 slampig if given the chance

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BHG they/them tiptopkitkat 5mo ago #6520823 Edited 5mo ago

As someone with chick friends who are on dating apps "obsessed with you" can literally mean "responds timely".

It's why i don't buy these sob stories for a second. I've seen one my friends dodge great guys because they wouldn't play her stupid little hard to get games. I asked her where the middle of responding too quickly and too late is and was told "it's just a vibe"

Dating apps made bitches way too confident but it also put them in a position where they think they deserve the perfect man who doesn't exist so it's fun to spectate until i have to listen to her blame everyone but herself

She has no job, her dad pays for everything, and she doesn't even have a driver's license. But she will judge these men hard, while she brings nothing besides being an 8/10

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Glocktavious bix/nood Professor of Nіggаոоmісs BHG 5mo ago #6521094

The best is when they claim that the reason they are single is that guys are intimidated by them. My wife's single friends are insane. Sally, no one is intimidated by your project management job, and the fact that you are complaining to a married friend who is more accomplished than your should clue you in.

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laha they/them 550k / L7 / 9 YOE Glocktavious 5mo ago #6521281 Edited 5mo ago

Yeah, a lot of professional women are just combative and high-maintenance. Why is this an asset in a relationship? I don't need to be half of a DINK powercouple or whatever, I just need a pleasant, trustworthy bangmaid. She doesn't even need to be particularly pretty. The old sexual division of labor still makes sense in 2024.

But of course if I tell your average post-wall foid this, then I'm an abuser, an exploiter, a manchild, I'm intimidated by strong women, I'm shallow, blah blah blah. Yet I still sleep at night. Cuddled up with pretty young women.

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Picos_ice_cream they/them Coco might actually not be so bad now that I'm bored of the others laha 5mo ago #6522670

They imitate the "strong" women in TV, all while imitating the traits of men they're attracted to.

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K9 she/it :marseycia:

If I pull that off, will you die? :marseybane:

Picos_ice_cream 5mo ago #6523534

Problem everyone has these days tbh. Can't separate what's attractive in them from what's attractive to them.

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Redactor0 naori/oppa Darklands shill, do not engage BHG 5mo ago #6520889

All they need is constant attention except when they suddenly don't. If you can't sense that psychically then you're not a good man.

@Redactor0 stand with Israel.

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JingleWhales she/bitch An educated, strictly organic, ortho molecular aware patriotic princess. BHG 5mo ago #6521304

>while she brings nothing besides being an 8/10

Moids are constantly going on about how they don't care about interests or career or personality and they just want to bang a hottie, this is the obvious result.

See below: " just need a pleasant, trustworthy bangmaid." @laha you deserve every bland instathot you get.

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EEE E/EE JingleWhales 5mo ago #6521463

Moids are constantly going on about how they don't care about interests or career or personality and they just want to bang a hottie, this is the obvious result.

Nobody says that personality isn't important, they usually only bring it up when ugly and annoying chicks shriek about how nobody cares about their "amazing" personality. Everyone knows that a good personality is a modifier score to your physical attractiveness.

Her career legitimately doesn't matter though.

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IVIayaelTheAnima I/We I’m 100% certain that at least half the mods do not have Faith or the Holy Spirit. EEE 5mo ago #6523093

The ugly chicks loudly talking about their great personalities don't have them. All the ugly chicks with actually nice personalities are in relationships.

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laha they/them 550k / L7 / 9 YOE JingleWhales 5mo ago #6521352

Good job omitting the following sentence saying "she doesn't even need to be particularly pretty" - I am obviously not chasing Instathots for this reason. Don't @ me if you're going to obviously misrepresent me, especially when yes a lot of guys do fall into this trap. I do care about interests or career or personality though. You have to pleasant, enjoy the same animus as me, and make little enough money that you're easily impressed that I'll pay for dates without a second thought.