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JingleWhales she/bitch An educated, strictly organic, ortho molecular aware patriotic princess.  5mo ago (thecut.com) 2,349 thread views #275004

Why Dating Feels Like a Nightmare for Young Women Right Now

https://www.thecut.com/article/tiktok-videos-single-women-crying.html

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A foid is sad, have fun, rdrama.

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Each woman offers different theories on why dating is such a drag right now. Taylor blames technology, and Spencer finds men her age are more interested in “getting shit-faced in New York City every weekend” than in committing to a relationship, partly because the COVID-19 pandemic derailed their prime sexual years. Another woman in her early 30s tells me she has been on an eight-month break from dating men because she thinks they've become more politically conservative

IMO a lot of women's dating issues come down to too much competition for the same guy. Watching my female friends date/swipe it's obvious that they're (for the most part) all going after the same guys. It's no surprise then that these guys, who have basically unlimited options, behave really badly to each individual woman.

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its not women at the top, but men at the top, who are at the top top of the "dating scene"

I always thought the hottest women are the true winners b ut i'ts not the case

men will go for anything (by comparison) and the top 10% of dudes get attention from all women

but women are picky (at first) and always looking to get someone better than them in p much every way (they think they're a 10 but want Mr. 11 sigma)

hot dudes get infinity women and anyone below the top 20% of moids doesn't exist to girlies bc they're all 10s and deserve better

so hot women will limit themselves to the top .01% of dudes (who have infinite options)

in conclusion hot women are actually screwed bc the chances of finding a sigma who would actually be faithful is probably 0

this is why in failed societies where monogamy breaks down the end result is always one rich dude getting 15 wives

it's the logical conclusion of this behavior: more women get access to top men, men get as many women as they can afford

sucks for women overall, sucks for sub-9 males :marseyshrug: that's why we have had rules in society


but the problem is on foids for being so judmental and the solution is getting to know more people irl (this needs to be improved for all of us asocial !r-slurs across the board but is especially important for foids because they judge men they actually know more fairly than strangers)

and picking a potential mate from that group of irl friends or acquaintances instead of thinking you have a chance with the top 10% of dudes on a dating ap bc you don't. (for any more than one night at least)

the fundamental misunderstanding from foids is that if a man is willing to freak it then they must also want a relationship. when these are two different qualifictions for moids

and the misunderstanding from incels is that if you're nice then she will be atracted but its foids who have 2 different standards here: 'danger/attractiveness' and 'stability/niceness' are two different (often opposing) scales and without the first no amount of the second will make one like you.


anyway this is my conclusion after watching every hoe_math video a couple weeks ago :marseybardfinnsbiggestenjoyer:

im basically enlightened on the issue :marseybigbrain: but I have birds and so dn't need women :marseythumbsup:
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OUT!

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Hoe math?

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someone linked a video here

so I went and watched all of them

:marseybrain: im a better person for it

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It's the same as the housing market: we need to increase supply somehow.

I'll vote for any candidate who runs on a policy to dramatically scale up production of literate, funny moids with good hair and bad habits.

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My female friends have shown me the guys they swipe left on, or convos they've started and then didn't want to date the guy, and I seriously doubt there's a lot of space to upgrade these moids to be datable. I used to assume the girls were just being too picky but it's legit really bleak out there.

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:#marseyhesright:

It's a pipeline problem. We need to start when they're young to make sure they're emotionally damaged enough to be alluring but not so much so that they become abusive.

Also teaching them how to write a complete sentence wouldn't hurt.

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I'll vote for any candidate who runs on a policy to dramatically scale up production of literate, funny moids with good hair and bad habits.

i'm right here bb

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what is good hair? :marseythinkorino:

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It needs to look good but appear effortless and be in a style that compliments his face shape. It should look fun to run your fingers through and mega bonus points if it actually does feel nice (avoid too much product).

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That's asking way too much lol

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I have good hair

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At a certain age having it

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Make some of them gay and they'll get my vote

>I'll vote for any candidate who runs on a policy to dramatically scale up production of literate, funny moids with good hair and bad habits.

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