https://old.reddit.com/r/lgbt/comments/174vep5/am_i_transphobic
The other day at work, I was helping this young transgender man customer and I didn't know he was transgender until he corrected me very rudely after I said “It would be in the next aisle Miss” saying “ugh why does everyone misgender me? My pronouns are he/him, can't you tell?” And whispered to his friend “cis people annoy me” and I'm not even cis? (I'm a demigirl)
TLDR: A transgender man got upset I assumed he was a woman and I accidentally used the wrong pronouns but I apologized and afterwards addressed him with the proper pronouns . Am I transphobic?
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We're won't punish you, as long as you educate yourself, sweaty.
Mhm! I am trans, and would rather someone not call me sir/ma'am, and just say, "It's in the next isle."
You should be rude to people and avoid polite titles because you might offend the permanently offended.
you're not transphobic. maybe stop using the gendered terms though so it doesn't happen again
While you may not be transphobic, you're a horrible rude prick anyway!
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How can you pass as a nobinary man, how can you be a nonbinary man,
@YouveBeenEatenByAGrue please explain this as I'm deeply confused and need your emotional labour. I will compensate as a good ally should.
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I assume it's an umbrella term for demiboy, masculine-presenting non-binary, and shit I don't totally get like he/him lesbians.
Feel free to not comp me for that lazy answer, but if you feel like it anyway could you load me up with homoween awards
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the answer is either autism or narcissism. sometime both
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Narcissism is an element but only because narcissism is an element of the sovl and thus present in everything we do unless you're a monk or comatose ^^
I'd say that in the valid's efforts to build more and more elaborate selves that challenge societal molds, they are at least aware of narcissism and it's role in the self enough to be more easily enlightened than normies.
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neighbor none of these gender goblins have any self awareness, that's why the fell for the cult brainwashing. It literally takes an epiphany for most of them to snap out of it
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