I'm in my third year of college and i still dont have any friends and I think im gay . How do I just be normal and make friends and fall in love and not be alone all the time? if this goes on for much longer probably just going to rope tbh
alright sorry for blogpost but i try to include marseys to make it more interesting and less sad
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You are too focused on your own thoughts when you are in public. That's why you are always worrying about fitting in and how you act. Also, you don't know how to act because you don't pay attention to other people so you don't know how to act.
Try going for a walk and observing what's going on. Don't think about rdrama or memes. Don't think about TV or your studies. Think about the outside, the people, what they are doing, how the architecture looks, how the sun makes the trees look.
To meet other gay people, if you want to get involved in pride and activism then go to the LGBT center. If you want to be artsy go try to attend theater stuff. If you want stem gays you're hard pressed but they exist. You can just tell people you're gay and they will introduce you to their gay friends.
To not be alone, making friends is about statistics. You will take to 10 people on campus but you will talk to 0 while locked up in your goon cave.
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i think ur right thanks
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