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HELLO? IS THIS THING ON? AM I ALL ALONE? IS ANYONE THERE? I NEED A BIGGER GUN
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has any actual lesbian ever said the word "sapphic"
cis women are the ones who pioneered the term back in the olden days (2010s). also she is hot dont @ me
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I like some of the Gaga songs, what the frick does she know about cameras?!?!
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Does she think the bed head hair is a good look? Also if you have zero tits and shirt that dips down to your fricking belly button is an awful look
Which brings my next point, why are gay guys so much more fashionable than lesbians? You would think lesbians would have fashion styles on point but they're objectively worse than gay guys
It's cause effeminate gay men often spend a lot of time socializing with women and have a solid grasp of trends. When you combine that with the moid propensity for obsessiveness you get moids dictating foid fashion, hair, and makeup.
Cis-lesbians are often too butch to care about conforming to fashion trends that closely and trans-lesbians are often too undersocialized to understand fashion well.
This title is FACTS 😭🙏🏼 "passing" is arbitrary, subjective— and like you said— oppressive. Be you. Cause you're gorgeous.
Thank you! The term is rooted in racism, being able to "pass" as white well enough and long enough to escape persecution. It applies exactly the same to trans people in my mind: it's not a prize, more of a terror driven goal some of us strive for in the hopes we can have a safe life.
We deserve to feel safe enough to set transition and fashion goals that are from the heart rather than to appease a patriarchal gaze.
Girrlll prreeeaaacchhh 🙏🏼😭 you are preachin to the choir. Take it from a mixed race person whose identity is constantly, constantly being erased one way or another. A lot of POC have complex, conflicting feelings about "passing" as white and to use that same term to be the "goal" for trans people is upsetting.
I mean I'm not perfect and our cisheteronormative society often makes me feel like "passing" is THE goal to have (both as a POC and a trans person), but I have to remind myself how messed up that is. It's ok to just be.
Unironically not a bad sentiment I'd argue. It's better than insisting that dysphoria is suicide inducing and that the only way to cure it is by putting yourself through surgery/hormones when gender itself is supposed to be separate from s*x.
The only problem is that it pretends that gender isn't a social phenomenon, which it absolutely is. "Passing" is whatever other people determine it to be, just like gender. Everyone, cis or trans, works to meet the social requirements of their gender to some extent.
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cis women are the ones who pioneered the term back in the olden days (2010s). also she is hot dont @ me
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I mean honestly not a bad looking guy. Really just needs to give up the trans thing it's not working for him.
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always got a chin that would mog most males
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Does she think the bed head hair is a good look? Also if you have zero tits and shirt that dips down to your fricking belly button is an awful look
Which brings my next point, why are gay guys so much more fashionable than lesbians? You would think lesbians would have fashion styles on point but they're objectively worse than gay guys
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Males are better at everything
They design a big chunk of women's clothes
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It's cause effeminate gay men often spend a lot of time socializing with women and have a solid grasp of trends. When you combine that with the moid propensity for obsessiveness you get moids dictating foid fashion, hair, and makeup.
Cis-lesbians are often too butch to care about conforming to fashion trends that closely and trans-lesbians are often too undersocialized to understand fashion well.
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Sleazecore is so back
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Unironically not a bad sentiment I'd argue. It's better than insisting that dysphoria is suicide inducing and that the only way to cure it is by putting yourself through surgery/hormones when gender itself is supposed to be separate from s*x.
The only problem is that it pretends that gender isn't a social phenomenon, which it absolutely is. "Passing" is whatever other people determine it to be, just like gender. Everyone, cis or trans, works to meet the social requirements of their gender to some extent.
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Title translation?
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I have a peepee and a five o'clock shadow but you have to have s*x with me anyway
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Is the Elon Musk drip intentional?
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