41 years old and foreveralone, negative net worth spending time with a herd of cats watching Netflix and paypigging mobile games

https://youtube.com/watch?v=UeQo4qcHmZM

Might have gotten some of this wrong, hopefully mostly right though

Brianna, 41, Seattle WA

Single, owns a few cats, no mention of boyfriend/girlfriend/exes

"I have a lotta debt. It's a lot of stuff I've racked up from a long time ago and I've been slowly making progress over time but just this year is when I started making a really decent income"

  • Increased by $6'000 annually

Wants to leave her current apartment because "the neighborhood is going south" :marseysad:

Career:

  • Job 1: Bookeeper

    • Small private firm

    • 25.75 full time (53k yearly)

  • Job 2: Podcast assistant

    • Working on two podcasts for a woman who has health and wellness podcasts

    • Show notes, artwork, audio-editing

    • Flat $385 a week altogether

  • Around $6'000 monthly pre-tax?

Expenses/Debts:

  • $176 in subscriptions

    • "If you have netflix you have time to work!" timestamp
  • Rent -

    • "I'm lucky right now my rent is extremely reasonable"

    • "I've been living in my apartment for a really long time"

  • Apple Card (Card 1):

    • March31 $1'975 -> April30 $2'300

    • $46 minimum payment

    • Blames lifestyle creep for the increase in her spending

    • "Did you follow a budget?" "Then I did not but now I do"

    • Pays down balance that would accrue interest before interest is charged? I didn't understand this one timestamp

    • Lots of eating out, 3-4 visits to watch Mariners games

    • Paypigs hundreds of dollars a month on Angry Birds :marseyxd:

    • 2 apple purchases financed -

      • 0% APR on an Apple Watch

      • 0% on some cat thing

    • Emergency pet services put on the card because she didn't have the cash on hand

    • Claims she has had it for almost a year now and has not paid a single dime of interest

  • Card 2:

    • $6'718

    • "That card was actually twice as much, I split it to do a 0% apr with a balance transfer"

      • "That was like 14'000" "I'm not quite sure what I spent that money on"
  • Citi (Card 3)

    • $6689 -> $6'339 (Made $350 in payments on it)

    • minimum payment $63

  • Amazon Card (Card 4):

    • "Because I was buying things on Amazon I opened an Amazon card for the the the points or whatever but this will also be paid off without accruing interest"

    • $555, $361 on traveling to see Caleb

      • He's not comping these people's flights :marseyxd: timestamp
    • Whole Foods

    • A pair of shoes because she's been walking more often for fitness?

  • Student Loans timestamp

    • $18'000s

    • 5% interest

    • "All Federal?" "I don't know"

      • They are federal
    • In deferment for a very long time when she was younger

    • Opted not to pause her loans?

      • Didn't realize she could pay them off still while they were paused
    • $304 minimum payment

  • No vehicles

    • does not drive

Savings/Retirement:

  • $100 -> $300 -> $0

  • "Every time I try to put money in savings I'm like no wait I should spend that on paying my debt down and like-"

  • Paid 225 for a psychic reading :marseyxd: timestamp

  • $200 in Robinhood

    • Some health thing, treasury bonds, and a vanguard etf

    • Cashed it out and spent in on credit card bill

  • "Stash"

    • 2 accounts both around 1'200

    • bunch of random stocks

  • Job just started to offer a 401k and she's made 1 contribution

  • "I have a contingency plan for retirement" "What?" "It's my best friend, she has a pension and VA disability and she said I could we could get married" :marseyxd:

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Paid 225 for a psychic reading

Queen moment

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I can tell by looking at you that you are an idiot. That'll be 275, please.

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It's absolutely insane how much money people spend on ubereats and similar shit. Like maybe if you're rich and can afford it whatever but these people aren't rich and they're spending massive amounts on the tiniest convenience. How fricking hard could it possibly be to just drive over and pickup your food?

I have some friends like this too. It makes zero sense to me.

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I was helping a friend move from his apartment(top half of a small rental property) to his parent's house because he couldn't afford the rent increase from 850 -> 950 a month. :marseyeyeroll:

While I was there, I mentioned he didn't have any soap in his bathroom to wash your hands with. He door dashed hand sanitizer for like 20 dollars total instead of driving down a few blocks to a gas station to pick up some actual hand soap.

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Or even better just use hello fresh or whatever. Or just buy frozen food, its not like its any different than whatever goyslop you are getting delivered.

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yeah but then I have to cook it.

:#marseychonker2:

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Wrack up that credit card debt, wagie

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I occasionally get doordash for my WFH job but 9 times out of 10 I just laugh at the cost and make a PB&J instead.

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Career Aspiration: podcast assistant.

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:#tracenote:

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:#marseychristchanreading:

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>a pair of shoes

Let women enjoy things 😠

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Made sense to me, a good pair of shoes is really important

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!biofoids !incels Time for you to squabble about who hits the wall when

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At what point do neighbors just stop caring?

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she looks good for being 41 :marseyshrug:

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She's likely relying on dating apps and nobody should use dating apps to find a good connection. It's sad. Gotta get out even if it's just around your neighborhood. I've already zero'd in on some hot af daddies in my area. I've crossed out any hot daddy with an uggo lawn though. Must have nice green lawn.


Krayon sexually assaulted his sister. https://i.rdrama.net/images/17118241526738973.webp https://i.rdrama.net/images/17118241426254768.webp https://i.rdrama.net/images/17156480765435808.webp

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I'm planning on flooding my lawn into a swamp so I can have frogs in my yard. If the frogs are nice and green is that good enough?

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As long as there are no weeds. I see these shitty lawns with weeds and I'm all :marseyindignant:


Krayon sexually assaulted his sister. https://i.rdrama.net/images/17118241526738973.webp https://i.rdrama.net/images/17118241426254768.webp https://i.rdrama.net/images/17156480765435808.webp

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Most "lawns" in the part of Florida where I live are 90% weeds, proper grass just doesn't like to grow in the sand that passes for soil here. The weeds grow so thick tough that if you keep it trimmed it passes for a real lawn at a distance.

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oh yeah Florida grass is definitely in a league of its own. It looks like one big weed. lol But Georgia grass looks like golf course green when taken care of or like complete shit when it's not.


Krayon sexually assaulted his sister. https://i.rdrama.net/images/17118241526738973.webp https://i.rdrama.net/images/17118241426254768.webp https://i.rdrama.net/images/17156480765435808.webp

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Maybe I’m just too gay but she looks kind of like those magnetic trolls on the side of the fridge

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:marseychonkerfoid: are the reason why mobile phone games massively outgross :marseynintendo: traditional games. Turns out the demographic that does everything by emotion is easy to manipulate into addiction.

Also why would you go too college if you're just going too be a bookkeeper. You don't need a degree too do that; higher ed is a scam dependent on convincing the world it does something useful for most students.

Trans lives matter

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All these videos give me severe anxiety/doubt over my own spending habits

:#marseysweating:

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you are not free until the day your passive income reliably suffices to pay for all your needs. at that point you're working only to increase your future passive income and/or because you enjoy working.

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I already earn enough passive income to live like a wagie but yeah more is required.

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if in the US that probably means you've already made it. just need to move to a nice cheap country and enjoy semi-retirement.

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not the us :marseysadge:

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frick those overpaid yanks

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Quite the opposite, it makes me :marseyshy3: because even at my worst I'm not gonna pay for more than one streaming site at a time and if I eat takeout, it'll be once every week or two and I'm gonna pick it up because frick delivery fees.

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How do you spend hundreds of dollars a month on angry birds????

:#marseywtf2:

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Same SMV as a rich manlet

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Okay I decided to finish watching this and holy shit, I know you mentioned it

Opted not to pause her loans?

Didn't realize she could pay them off still while they were paused

but like holy SHIT what? She could have paused the interest but opted not to. :marseywtf: That's like telling the IRS "no please keep my tax return I don't actually want it". She didn't realize she could pay them while paused? Is a fricking google search "can I continue to pay down my federal student loans if they're paused" too much for her? How does she fricking dress herself every day?

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>Paypigs hundreds of dollars a month on Angry Birds

how the frick do you even spend that much on angry birds

Wtf do you even buy, :marseyakbar: black birds?

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