This r-slurred take is something most Poors actually believe - more money comes with longer hours and harder work.
Working a 8am-5pm has broken me. I want to go back to being a server working 4pm-9pm everyday making barely $120/day and $300+ on weekends. I was much happier and had much less responsibilities. My life is good don't get me wrong, but I had much more time for leisure. I wasn't necessarily a bum but enjoyed being able to workout, make myself breakfast and lunch before a shift, maybe play some video games, take a nap, go into work. Now I sit behind a computer all day and basically eat garbage for lunch. I call people all day I'll never meet in person nor do I care to. I'm too tired after work to do anything. I have contemplated for a while now on quitting my job and becoming a server at a high end restaurant again or go work some simple 20/hr job like everyone else my age so I can get my free time back. Only thing stopping me is my parents who will shun me because of my degree. I have one other friend who has their weekends off like me since we are relatively young (24M been at this job since 22. with careers. Everyone else works weekends so I am constantly doing shit by myself. I make more money than all my friends so everything I like to do/want to do is out of their price range.
Everyone in the west thinks " I don't care what job I have as long as I make 100k/year I'll be happy". Not true. Newsflash you won't be. You work dumb hours, get like 1 day to actually chill, and then your back to the same cycle. I'll never chase a job because of salary again. I have a degree but man is it really worth it to give up your whole day for nothing? I'm literally working the day after holiday while tons of people are on vacation/or have the day off?
Unpopular opinion is that I'd rather make less money and be happy than well off and miserable. Sure no one likes you when your poor but no one likes you when you're miserable either. I don't want to be rich anymore. I just want to be happy.
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I work two jobs, a white collar internship and a more active wagie job on weekends and I actually find the wagie job more fun. I also used to work in pizza too and that was the funnest job I ever had. Once I graduate I'll go for the higher paying jobs in my field, don't get me wrong, but I think there's truth to the idea that most humans prefer active jobs where you're on your feet to desk jobs.
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People turn up their nose at blue collar work but then cry about their mental health and office dynamics
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I'm not sure how people don't understand the difference between people-persons and INTJ-neurodivergents. Some people simply prefer handing coffee to the unwashed masses; others can very easily work 18 hour shifts refactoring code, only breaking to post unfunny transrights memes on Reddit.
It's really just the absolute chads like
@Garry_Christmas who can both work with people and solve complex mechanical problems, all while living a happy life.
No idea why we keep telling young girls who want to be dental hygienists or sales reps that they should study electrical engineering or physics or computer science. Alcohol-related death is still increasing for females, and I can't imagine it'll get any better if we tell them to work from home and decipher the human genome.
I've lost my own point. Where am I?
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Damore lost, chud, get over it
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Only true for non fatties, the fatties complain about the amount of stairs at their desk job
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