Sorry for another blogpost in such a short time, but this is such a bombshell for me that I MUST tell mis dramamigos about it.
Our suite went out for dinner today for a fun friday night, and we started showing each other pics from our camera rolls. I showed the other girl in our suite pics and mentioned that it was before HRT/before I started transitioning, and she was so surprised. She bewilderingly asked me "so wait are you transgender?" I had to explain that I was and she said she had no clue. We've literally been roommates for 3 months and she never figured it out???? Anyways she was supportive but that could have been bad lol
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Sweaty we managed to clock you from a cropped photo in a ghost thread based on your bad fashion sense and giant arms and shoulders.
I think she might know.
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not everyone is looking at picures of trans women so much so they will learn even minute clue that can make it so they can clock them much easier.
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You're just contributing to the delusion though now.
If a curated set of pictures, cropped to exclude face and adams apple, can result in almost 100% clocking, do you truly believe someone in that
's presence won't be able to use all the real life cues to clock them even easier?
Hand size, face size, jaw, voice, shoulders, height, man face, actual personality are all factors that would result in instant clocking which don't come across in a picture but can't be hidden IRL.
Everyone fricking knows he's a man.
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those things are not what regular people constantly have on their mind, maybe if they thought it through they could figure it out, but people simply don't have
s live in their head rent free.
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That's not the way it works at all though. People can instantly tell a male from a female at first glance due to those cues and more.
If you took someone who had never even heard of
s, they would still be able to clock a male based on those male features.
People don't see long hair, skirt and makeup and think "That's a woman."
They see giant shoulders, giant face, adams apples, big hands, big feet, posture, gait, size difference, difference in proportions and think "That's a man."
Not because they study
s online but because it's natural and is built in.
Considering that
's are often neurodivergent and therefore gullible, consider the harm that well-intentioned but false flattery does to them long-term. They all learn the truth eventually.
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that's only true for the non-passing trans women, not for those who pass
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Oh yes the mythical stealth
s that there's totally millions of and no one can tell.
But that irrelevant since
@Delusional
clearly doesn't pass.
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she passes
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This is cruelty masquerading as kindness. You're an enabler and your enabling the continued belief in a delusion rather than working towards acceptance.
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Factcheck: This claim is currently being debunked.
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The only thing you're doing rn is making quad hard, he's hoping the
will let him suck xir's pp.
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don't believe lying chuds, I do know there are plently of passing trans people who are hard to tell apart from cis women
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Sorry bro, AuntieAbortion isn't gonna frick u
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ok BIPOC
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Speak for yourself, I constantly scruitinize every woman I meet in my daily life for the slightest hint of an Adams apple so I can verbally reassure her I'm a good ally.
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Are you saying a woman would lie? Surely not.
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