I wasn't trying to be an butthole or anything. In the moment it felt like the right thing to do because we were getting along so far but then she said no to having any feelings for me, but I still felt like she had some of the personality traits. I sent it to help her out in case she is also a bit 'tistic but now I am wondering whether I might have accidentally caused offense.
I believe any highly empathetic adults and any adults who get along with neurodivergents have at least some of the 'tism in themselves as well. So I just wanted to help her do a quick barebones test on herself for it if she was interested.
AITA?
Thanks rdrama.
Am I extroverting correctly?
It's Sunday and I have completely given up social media beyond responding to friends and sending a predetermined number of relatable memes.
I am trying to decide whether I should use my free time today to do stuff or go into the deepest trance that I can.
Good luck to you and good luck to me.
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Lmao yes that would be considered offensive to non-neurodivergent women, they don't like being told they don't have good social skills even indirectly.
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I might have accidentally done a funny
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No way bro.
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This is what years of missed socialization looks like.
This is why you must touch grass every day so the lack of social experience doesn't stack up and turn into pure cringe when you do finally go outside one day.
Learn from my mistakes.
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She rejected you, and then you called her neurodivergent.
That is the most normal thing you could have done.
You hyper obsessing over it after the fact is the autism.
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She rejected u. I think subconsciously (but probably mostly on purpose) u resent her and did that as a way to strike back.
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I wish.
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You're fricking r-slurred. Why do you keep diary posting?
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to help other r-slurs learn faster and better
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It's the post version of grue's boring comment gimmick. Very dramatic, you agree
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Grue has a gimmick?
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To be fair he has like three, but they're all pretty bad
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This is some next-level autism
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It's called being neurodivergent but not hiding in your bedroom.
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DISSOCIATE
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It's very useful for clear thinking
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So basically i had a boner and had to hide it and i put the peepee like up towards my stomach i was wearing a hoodie and a tshirt and if someone lifted it they would see it . I got this feeling that some shit would happen so i put my peepee back down and like 20 seconds later a guy pulled up my shirt and hoodie as a joke and yeah my peepee wasnt there
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I love the phrasing suggesting you explicitly offered her the opportunity to have feelings for you, which of course any sane woman would decline
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I take back one KEEP YOURSELF SAFE I've sent you, that's pretty funny lmao.
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How did you send her one? Like a buzzfeed quiz?
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yes exactly like that bu a slightly more reputable site
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"high empathic adults"
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Show test and relatable memes plz
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What?
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