I wasn't trying to be an butthole or anything. In the moment it felt like the right thing to do because we were getting along so far but then she said no to having any feelings for me, but I still felt like she had some of the personality traits. I sent it to help her out in case she is also a bit 'tistic but now I am wondering whether I might have accidentally caused offense.
I believe any highly empathetic adults and any adults who get along with neurodivergents have at least some of the 'tism in themselves as well. So I just wanted to help her do a quick barebones test on herself for it if she was interested.
AITA?
Thanks rdrama.
Am I extroverting correctly?
It's Sunday and I have completely given up social media beyond responding to friends and sending a predetermined number of relatable memes.
I am trying to decide whether I should use my free time today to do stuff or go into the deepest trance that I can.
Good luck to you and good luck to me.
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No way bro.
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This is what years of missed socialization looks like.
This is why you must touch grass every day so the lack of social experience doesn't stack up and turn into pure cringe when you do finally go outside one day.
Learn from my mistakes.
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She rejected you, and then you called her neurodivergent.
That is the most normal thing you could have done.
You hyper obsessing over it after the fact is the autism.
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