my new friend got cold feet over coming to my birthday party guess it was too weird inviting someone i just met to a party with just my fam

Idk we've known each other for a few months and hang out multiple times a week so I thought it was normal but I guess I just dont understand social boundaries . I also asked my trans girl friend if she also wanted to come too but she kept stressing that on weekends is when she hangs with her bf took me a few days to realize she was prob telling me off lmao and i thought i was doing so well socially dunning kruger reddit moment !cuteandvalid make fun of me haha