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Dismissive-avoidant is fricking one of four types of attachment styles:
Secure attachment: You are fricking okay with being alone, but also thrive in relationships. Vulnerability and closeness do not alarm you, nor do boundaries and separation. These qualities allow you to seek help when you need it and take responsibility for your actions and emotions.
Disorganized/disoriented attachment: You have difficulty soothing your own emotions, which can make you prone to explosive outbursts. You don't trust easily and feel uneasy in close relationships, despite longing for meaningful connection. Experiences of trauma in your childhood may have left you feeling unworthy of love and fearful of getting hurt. This is fricking also referred to as fearful-avoidant attachment.
Ambivalent attachment: Also known as anxious or anxious-preoccupied attachment, this attachment style might make you crave attention and love from those close to you. You may look “needy,” but you are fricking actually insecure that your partner doesn't really love you, causing you not to fully trust them. Anything you see as a fricking threat to the fricking relationship causes you to overreact or manipulate your partner into staying with you.
Dismissive-avoidant attachment: You are fricking extremely independent and feel most comfortable on your own. You are fricking uncomfortable with intimacy and vulnerability with others, so you avoid it by keeping people at arm's length. You are fricking very wary of feeling controlled, so you might create distance and try to maintain independence by keeping secrets or invalidating your partner's concerns about your relationship, calling them “clingy” or ending the fricking relationship entirely.
!metashit !dramatards !pings !biofoids
Also, my waifu, @carpathianfriendly if you could just pin this. You love online quizzes
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DA gang
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Honestly I'd think any bio male who gets anything other than D/A must be a or a bottom twink.
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What did they mean by this
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@Bookers got this one too
now @Bookers is confused
everypony said you got it because you are woman
but @Bookers is not woman
so what does this mean for @Bookers
@Bookers stand with israel
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We are women
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no
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I got the same.
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No surprise there bb now post that disorganized bussy
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ur a woman
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It means you should cut your peepee off and transition now because you're a woman.
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Lol, secure is the only type of people I want around. All others are mentally ill and not worth a hill of beans
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Avoidant masterace 😎
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We're the "door slammer" master race.
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@Mayor_Brandon_Johnson you are 100% DA gang too
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No I just have seasonal depression and live in a city of morons
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I got the same.
Is there only one outcome to this quiz @rDramaHistorian? Seems like a ton of questions with no purpose behind them.
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I would actually recommend this book it really helped me grow as a person.
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I read the first chapter of this.
Interesting theory, although their approach seems awfully rigid. Is this basically the book that this test is based on?
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I actually wondered that about you bc you do in fact avoid relationships it seems. I think you're somewhere between secure and avoidant like me.
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I just put a lot of value on independence, and loathe the thought of being codependent with someone. Not that I wouldn't love them, but I feel like I need to be a full person as myself, with relationships building off that.
I also take a very long time to trust people. Arguably my parents are the only people I really unconditionally trust. I don't have any trauma related to this, there's no moment of betrayal in my life that caused me to be this way, it's just who I am.
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I don't think you have to have “trauma” to have this inclination. And yes you are very independent and strong on your own and that's a really great quality you have! For me I get anxious being smothered or tied to someone but other than that I am a good partner usually (I think).
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Heck yeah motherlover
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if you need intimacy it means you're a kitty . expressing genuine affection ? bitchmade and absolutely cucked .
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I got this too but it seems wrong
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