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Dismissive-avoidant is fricking one of four types of attachment styles:
Secure attachment: You are fricking okay with being alone, but also thrive in relationships. Vulnerability and closeness do not alarm you, nor do boundaries and separation. These qualities allow you to seek help when you need it and take responsibility for your actions and emotions.
Disorganized/disoriented attachment: You have difficulty soothing your own emotions, which can make you prone to explosive outbursts. You don't trust easily and feel uneasy in close relationships, despite longing for meaningful connection. Experiences of trauma in your childhood may have left you feeling unworthy of love and fearful of getting hurt. This is fricking also referred to as fearful-avoidant attachment.
Ambivalent attachment: Also known as anxious or anxious-preoccupied attachment, this attachment style might make you crave attention and love from those close to you. You may look “needy,” but you are fricking actually insecure that your partner doesn't really love you, causing you not to fully trust them. Anything you see as a fricking threat to the fricking relationship causes you to overreact or manipulate your partner into staying with you.
Dismissive-avoidant attachment: You are fricking extremely independent and feel most comfortable on your own. You are fricking uncomfortable with intimacy and vulnerability with others, so you avoid it by keeping people at arm's length. You are fricking very wary of feeling controlled, so you might create distance and try to maintain independence by keeping secrets or invalidating your partner's concerns about your relationship, calling them “clingy” or ending the fricking relationship entirely.
!metashit !dramatards !pings !biofoids
Also, my waifu, @carpathianfriendly if you could just pin this. You love online quizzes
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DA gang
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Avoidant masterace 😎
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We're the "door slammer" master race.
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@Mayor_Brandon_Johnson you are 100% DA gang too
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No I just have seasonal depression and live in a city of morons
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I got the same.
Is there only one outcome to this quiz @rDramaHistorian? Seems like a ton of questions with no purpose behind them.
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I would actually recommend this book it really helped me grow as a person.
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I read the first chapter of this.
Interesting theory, although their approach seems awfully rigid. Is this basically the book that this test is based on?
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I actually wondered that about you bc you do in fact avoid relationships it seems. I think you're somewhere between secure and avoidant like me.
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I just put a lot of value on independence, and loathe the thought of being codependent with someone. Not that I wouldn't love them, but I feel like I need to be a full person as myself, with relationships building off that.
I also take a very long time to trust people. Arguably my parents are the only people I really unconditionally trust. I don't have any trauma related to this, there's no moment of betrayal in my life that caused me to be this way, it's just who I am.
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I don't think you have to have “trauma” to have this inclination. And yes you are very independent and strong on your own and that's a really great quality you have! For me I get anxious being smothered or tied to someone but other than that I am a good partner usually (I think).
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Heck yeah motherlover
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I got this too but it seems wrong
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what's the point of this? Are you all immature teens or something
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Immature and unstable people? On my catty gossip website?
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i almost feel bad saying that i also got secure with all of the other replies lmao
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The amount of sadbrains here is kinda uncomfortable lol. In order to troll effectively you need to be right with yourself
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hardly a surprise, now I can go back to safely ignoring everything dramafails say
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Based on the questions it seemed like it was mostly based on if you have a good relationship with friends and family. I have a good relationship with my parents and a strong bond with friends so I got secure.
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Secure gang RISE UP
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Aloof, distrustful people who don't like others getting too close? Here? Say it ain't so!
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I probably would've gotten that if I wasn't hiding my schitzo and drug addiction to my parents
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You have to trust strangers and care about what they think to get secure, what are you retarted?
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Why did you get a moid and I get a foid?
My personality isn't foid like at all its literall sigma stoic gigachad.
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Heck yes king, let's avoid each other (fearfully).
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We've got Bardy fever! today we have mentioned our favorite mod 17 more times than usual!
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I really don't know why I got this. I essentially said I trust / open up to my parents / spouse but not other people I'm just a small circle kind of person. I didn't bother looking into what this one means.
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besties!
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WTF r u me?
IMO it's why I just do flings and not longer term stuff.
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Bardfinn
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Neighbor I don't even remember what I did last week, how am I supposed to answer that?
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Half the test was pretending my parents were alive, then the other half was pretending I had someone who loved me.
Also what kind of r-slur survey designer switches from negative form to positive form every other question. And you don't even get an r-sluration score at the end, just a category.
Total gyp.
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My surprise is immeasurable.
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I was as surprised as you are, I didn't even know they were sick.
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Smartest dramatard
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Yeah I couldn't even take it correctly since I have repressed most of my childhood memories and my mom has been dead forever. Lame quiz!!
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Your attachment style is: stop doing meth
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FUXKING INCEL GO TO THERAPY
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I'm preoccupied with my grand ambitions, so I'd say this test is accurate.
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Thanks, but I don't need extra support. I bother my mother at the slightest inconvenience.
She doesn't care most of the time, and so it does not burden her, this way we have a perfect system.
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Where?
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BARD BOT ALERT!Current streak was: 0 days 00 hours 00 minutes and 39 seconds
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Lmao
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YOULL NEVER TRICK ME INTO REVEALING MY R-SLURRED PERSONALITY.
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Found the anxiously attached
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I will never let that comment go. FROZEN DOX CLAPBACK:
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That's one of the only instances that taking the foid's name might be justified. Eternal N-word pass.
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Neighbors be researching out here fr.
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