She could have solved it by blowing you right then and there, she will pay for her inaction.

I'm confused, why not just have s*x?

She told me

change to a moid psychologist

Also don't focus on your studies, college is the best chance to lose your virginity, focus on that instead

!incels

I want to seriously help you, what is your main struggle with women? Do you have trouble making contact, talking to them, making conversation? Tell me and I will help you out

>lol don't worry bout it just focus on your work

doesn't sound like a very good psychologist

NEIGHBOR YOU ARE A B-WORD

Serious question: what do you want out of life? It's hard to answer, I know, but I truly think that getting to the bottom of it is the only path to happiness. Find out what you want out of life, and then pursue people that advance that goal. Don't cut, you're worth more then that. Also if you get some kind of infection and die from it I'll be without my favorite effort poster so don't do that.

Me too king me too

I dont even do anything any longer

I just deserve to die and honestly I should hsve roped ten years ago

Don't be so hard on yourself... It's rough out there. Put some effort into your own cultivation; The more you do, the more you'll end up liking yourself. When people see you liking yourself, they'll take that as a cue and do the same.

>I have this issue which is bothering so much that I can't even focus on living my life

>"Umm, have you tried focusing on your life?"

Terrible stuff, you work up the courage to open up to someone else and they don't get you at all so you end up feeling even shittier than before.

I wish I could give you some tips but I didn't get over it myself. The only thing I can tell you is that it gets a bit better by itself as you grow up

Your psychologist is shit. Their job isn't to give you advice, but to help you come to your own conclusions that make you happy.

Also it's not like you cannot focus on your studies and try to get laid at the same time. Unless of course there's a deadline or something in your studies as in "have this super important test in 4 weeks", then sure focus on your studies.

That said she's not completely wrong. iirc there are basically some pillars in everyone's life and you can be happy if a pillar is broken, but if too many pillars are broken you have issues. job perspective/career, family/friends, health (mental, physical), necessities (housing, food, ...) are the one's I recall. If I recall you have issues with most of the pillars (lost phd, mental health & drug addiction, lack of intimate relationship, ...). Only some parts are going well (you mentioned your sister in a positive light).

You can only work on so many things, so chose those wisely. And I would ask you if you consider yourself (mentally) healthy & stable enough to be in a long term relationship. You cannot expect a partner to fix you and until you have stabilized more you would most likely hurt your partner. Having a partner that cuts is not a nice thing to have - cause you will feel powerless to help.

Also work with your psychologist to learn different skills that you can do instead of cutting. Or look for an online self-help book for those.

A real doctor would have had s*x with you to cure you, she's a total hack SMDH

Cutting will surely solve it and make you more attractive to others.

How about you stop being fat

Pointless thing to tell a foid psych, inceldom doesn't exist in women's eyes, it probably didn't even register in her brain.

Try to look at things as they are rather than how you feel about them or want them to be. You cant improve external factors as easily as you can improve yourself.. Do ypu think that youll feel less depressed if you simply got laid? Becoming happy may coincide with that, butt you have to make the decision to be happy for yourself and I reckon if you were happier(butt more importanly stoicly content) with your situation, then your vibe would be such that ypur odds of getting laid will be higher. Rather than cut yourself ypu should work out. It provides the same catharsis as self-harm, butt less negative side effects and a bunch of other positive results. "Whether you think you can, or you think you cant, youre right." Mindset is everything @sneedman

I think you cut yourself because your foreskin was cut you're constantly recreating that symbolic act of genital mutilation on your own body. Also the general impotence you feel is a result of being rendered a spiritual eunuch by your parents

Surely she already knew

>She told me

Ngmi