I (39M) found out I'm the literal backup to my pregnant fiancée (32F) and walked out. She's begging me to go back - not sure what to do? : relationship_advice

The first few (3-5?) dates are non exclusive. After that you enter exclusivity territory (talk if you're in the US, cause you have a fricked up dating culture). If you find me not interesting enough to try the monogamous lifestyle after that amount of dates I have no interest in you. Keeping "backups" (more like alternatives) around is also just shitty in my opinion.

The foid is also 32, not even a zoomer. Don't discuss shit like this over texts. The guy will be scarred for the rest of his life. Making the post shows this. His best option is to agree to raise the child together but not have a relationship with the foid.