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forgotmyoldacc they/them  1yr ago (reddit.com) 1,339 thread views #184250

I (39M) found out I'm the literal backup to my pregnant fiancée (32F) and walked out. She's begging me to go back - not sure what to do? : relationship_advice

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I knew I would fall in love with my husband the night we met, it was entirely his energy & obvious intelligence, he didn't exactly feel the same way. We pretty much spent the next 5 years hitting every milestone with a lot of hurt feelings on my end because he wouldn't commit without my direct input.
We were as happy as any couple could possibly be: never broke contact from the day we met, spent every possible second together, had all the best things in common, were constantly surprised during conversations by our kismet, instantly stopped talking to anyone else we were seeing, hated being apart, couldn't keep our hands off each other... he just wasn't sure if he was ready or if I was the absolute best choice. It hurt me a lot, I wanted him to be as in love with me as I was with him, but he's a lot more methodical & intellectual than I am.
i can see scrotes having a hard time, dating is different for them, but how tf are women having this problem?? it's inadvisable to even have strag scrote friends because they will always catch feelings. it's so easy to find a guy that will be head over heels for you :marseywtf2: are these dummies doing marrying a guy that isn't bananas for them































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it's so easy to find a guy that will be head over heels for you
Yeah, but all of them are not Chad.































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You have no idea just how offputting this woman is































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it's so easy to find a guy that will be head over heels for you :marseywtf2: are these dummies doing marrying a guy that isn't bananas for them
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it's so easy to find a guy that will be head over heels for you
Ehh to be fair to foids the type of moid that catches feelings for every single friendly foid is usually a desperate af LVM.































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that's true! i feel like it's still better to be with a simp than a guy who doesn't want you though. but both sound so soul crushing :marseyrain: i guess even with the simp, it's not that he really likes you for who you are either, but because you are available :marseysad: i don't get why people would want either over just volcelling































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i guess even with the simp, it's not that he really likes you for who you are either, but because you are available
One of the best skills moids can pick up is making it seem like this isn't the case.































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It's true. If you can figure out how to fool women into thinking you don't want them for s*x/company, something visibly clicks in their brains that makes them NEED to.































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I was thinking more along the lines of making it seem like they're special in some way but yeah.































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