I (39M) found out I'm the literal backup to my pregnant fiancée (32F) and walked out. She's begging me to go back - not sure what to do? : relationship_advice

>After a short while, I start going through the phone and see she has conversations with her bestie in there and the last dates were just before we committed to each other. Basically, she was talking to her and literally weighing all her options up about having kids with before it's too late and she was going over her "backups" and I saw their chat about me. Basically the consensus was I was the shortest and oldest of her guys she was seeing but I had the best prospects - most stable job, best personality, most common interests, funny, good in bed and good looking even if I'm not her usual type. So she said she was going to give it a go and her friend encouraged her. Then I guess we started dating

This might be the first time I've ever said this, but the foid did literally nothing wrong here. The only bad thing here is that he got to read how the sausage gets made. I always went exclusive right from the start, so I've never had to deal with this kind of crap.

The moid should trans out because he's engaging in histrionics, which is a feminine hobby.

she had a preventive double mastectomy due to having the breast cancer gene

wtf that's insane

That's no guarantee she's going to get cancer. It's still an extremely small chance. CMV: preventative titty chops are only done on munchies